"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.
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Way off.

Survivor actually stepped down. He had other things in his life going on.

There are other black moderators on here.
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Way off.

Survivor actually stepped down. He had other things in his life going on.

There are other black moderators on here.
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Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
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For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.

Maybe to prevent racism we shouldn't consider people "black" or "white" at all. We're all just people.
 
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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
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Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.

*Shrugs* Then again, I don't know too much.
 
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I'm not sure if this is Feedback, or Anything Else, or what, but I know what it ain't -- and that's Mature Man. So off to Anything Else it goes.
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.

*Shrugs* Then again, I don't know too much.
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Well let me pull your coat for ya:

Well let's see by other types are there are mixed ones who don't identify with one half...there nonmixed ones who don't identify with whom they are...and the list goes on and on.

Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.

There is a new type of bruthas out there who do not aknowledge themselves to other brutha's like we did in the old days.
 
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For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.

Maybe to prevent racism we shouldn't consider people "black" or "white" at all. We're all just people.
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In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
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Then quit harping about who is and is not of a particular race.

That will go a long way toward making the world more perfect.
 
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Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.
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That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
 
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I'm not black either :D now what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
 
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Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
I'm not black either :D now what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
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Let me get back to you on that. *Adds to list of girls he'll never reply to*
 
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I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!
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LOL!! Don't forget the Italians. I feel left out. >> you didn't mention the Italians >> therefore, you're racist! :mad:

Player_Supreme,
The Brutha community!! POWER 2 THE PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!ONE!1ONE!!TWO!!! N1ggaz unite!!!! PANTHER POWER!!
Lots of my friends are black so I'm not racist, from the outside I'm white, but on the inside I'm 100% brutha. I'm like an African suffering from the albino disease, so we can be homies, ok?

On a serious note:
Go back to pimphop.com! I don't think a single cracka hangs out there, it's a brutha commmunity, we need a white community here without people like you. Yeah once in a while we choose a black moderator to seem non-racist, but little do you know of our true intentions...

<warning: lots of sarcasm above>
 
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Well this thread has gotten way off topic. Eternal answered the question. Survivor decided to move on.

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