Player_Supreme
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I just looked at the list of mods and I no longer see Survivors name anywhere on the forum.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What happened to Survivor?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Player_Supreme
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LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.
Player_Supreme
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Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Giovanni Casanova
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I'm not sure if this is Feedback, or Anything Else, or what, but I know what it ain't -- and that's Mature Man. So off to Anything Else it goes.
Player_Supreme
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Well let me pull your coat for ya:
Well let's see by other types are there are mixed ones who don't identify with one half...there nonmixed ones who don't identify with whom they are...and the list goes on and on.
Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.
There is a new type of bruthas out there who do not aknowledge themselves to other brutha's like we did in the old days.
Player_Supreme
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In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Giovanni Casanova
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Then quit harping about who is and is not of a particular race.
That will go a long way toward making the world more perfect.
Giovanni Casanova
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That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
StepItUpAnotch
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I'm not black either 
now what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
now what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
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I'm not black either
Let me get back to you on that. *Adds to list of girls he'll never reply to*
diplomatic_lie
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I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
m4a1
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LOL!! Don't forget the Italians. I feel left out. >> you didn't mention the Italians >> therefore, you're racist!
Player_Supreme,
The Brutha community!! POWER 2 THE PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!ONE!1ONE!!TWO!!! N1ggaz unite!!!! PANTHER POWER!!
Lots of my friends are black so I'm not racist, from the outside I'm white, but on the inside I'm 100% brutha. I'm like an African suffering from the albino disease, so we can be homies, ok?
On a serious note:
Go back to pimphop.com! I don't think a single cracka hangs out there, it's a brutha commmunity, we need a white community here without people like you. Yeah once in a while we choose a black moderator to seem non-racist, but little do you know of our true intentions...
<warning: lots of sarcasm above>
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