B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I'm not a troll just unlucky and out of my fvcking mind
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What does this mean?
- Thread starter B0redandl0nely
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD LMAO.
yeah i had the 'kiss me now, ignore later' thing. women change mind every 5min.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
It's probably because I bugged out on the date when I realized I didn't kiss her at that moment
RetiredArchitect
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You have to remember women are insecure too.
You rejected her, which results in her pulling away.
You need to get other things to do in your life because you are acting neurotic about a girl over little details
You rejected her, which results in her pulling away.
You need to get other things to do in your life because you are acting neurotic about a girl over little details
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I want you to answer me:
What is it you think we can do for you here at SoSuave? What is it you like to see from us?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I think what I'm doing is fine. What's actually going on in my head is probably bad for my health but I think I have a right to post here as much as anybody else.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I have things to do in my life but I'm getting distracted by the things I post about
GrowingPains
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You didn't answer the question. Very BigDave of you.
The question is what do you want from us?
Not whether you deserve to post here. When you post these threads, what are you looking for?
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Advice and I'm getting it
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I didn’t say you didn’t have a right to post here.
I asked you a genuine question. I want to know what it is, in your perception, you think we can do or that you expect us to do to help you?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Just answer my questions and I will take your advice. However, I think I need a break from this forum because I feel like it is frying my brain. My head really hurts.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Unfortunately, it's not easy for me to apply what I learn because have issues and disabilities. Like on the date I didn't kiss the girl in public, I bugged out and it upset her. I ruined the whole night.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Call me a troll, I can't fvcking believe what I did. And this is the last time I'll say it.
nah chad would pick out his 6'' inch phone and play minecraft on it in that very moment and she would become even more wet
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That's good.
Now put into practice what some posters had advised you.
Don't do it all at once, take 1 advice at a time and practice on it.
Find one you think that is easy and then zoom into it.
It will be slow but that doesn't matter, what matters is you take action and don't get excited to the point of being obsessed.
You'll be fine, don't worry.