B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I'm not a troll just unlucky and out of my fvcking mind
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What does this mean?
- Thread starter B0redandl0nely
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD LMAO.
yeah i had the 'kiss me now, ignore later' thing. women change mind every 5min.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
It's probably because I bugged out on the date when I realized I didn't kiss her at that moment
RetiredArchitect
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You have to remember women are insecure too.
You rejected her, which results in her pulling away.
You need to get other things to do in your life because you are acting neurotic about a girl over little details
You rejected her, which results in her pulling away.
You need to get other things to do in your life because you are acting neurotic about a girl over little details
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I want you to answer me:
What is it you think we can do for you here at SoSuave? What is it you like to see from us?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I think what I'm doing is fine. What's actually going on in my head is probably bad for my health but I think I have a right to post here as much as anybody else.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I have things to do in my life but I'm getting distracted by the things I post about
GrowingPains
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You didn't answer the question. Very BigDave of you.
The question is what do you want from us?
Not whether you deserve to post here. When you post these threads, what are you looking for?
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Advice and I'm getting it
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I didn’t say you didn’t have a right to post here.
I asked you a genuine question. I want to know what it is, in your perception, you think we can do or that you expect us to do to help you?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Just answer my questions and I will take your advice. However, I think I need a break from this forum because I feel like it is frying my brain. My head really hurts.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Unfortunately, it's not easy for me to apply what I learn because have issues and disabilities. Like on the date I didn't kiss the girl in public, I bugged out and it upset her. I ruined the whole night.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Call me a troll, I can't fvcking believe what I did. And this is the last time I'll say it.
nah chad would pick out his 6'' inch phone and play minecraft on it in that very moment and she would become even more wet
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's good.
Now put into practice what some posters had advised you.
Don't do it all at once, take 1 advice at a time and practice on it.
Find one you think that is easy and then zoom into it.
It will be slow but that doesn't matter, what matters is you take action and don't get excited to the point of being obsessed.
You'll be fine, don't worry.