“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What does this mean?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's probably because I bugged out on the date when I realized I didn't kiss her at that moment
 
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You have to remember women are insecure too.

You rejected her, which results in her pulling away.

You need to get other things to do in your life because you are acting neurotic about a girl over little details
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Atom Smasher said:
I want you to answer me:

What is it you think we can do for you here at SoSuave? What is it you like to see from us?
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I think what I'm doing is fine. What's actually going on in my head is probably bad for my health but I think I have a right to post here as much as anybody else.
 
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RetiredArchitect said:
You have to remember women are insecure too.

You rejected her, which results in her pulling away.

You need to get other things to do in your life because you are acting neurotic about a girl over little details
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I have things to do in my life but I'm getting distracted by the things I post about
 
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B0redandl0nely said:
I think what I'm doing is fine. What's actually going on in my head is probably bad for my health but I think I have a right to post here as much as anybody else.
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You didn't answer the question. Very BigDave of you.

The question is what do you want from us?
Not whether you deserve to post here. When you post these threads, what are you looking for?
 
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GrowingPains said:
You didn't answer the question. Very BigDave of you.

The question is what do you want from us?
Not whether you deserve to post here. When you post these threads, what are you looking for?
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Advice and I'm getting it
 
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B0redandl0nely said:
I think what I'm doing is fine. What's actually going on in my head is probably bad for my health but I think I have a right to post here as much as anybody else.
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I didn’t say you didn’t have a right to post here.

I asked you a genuine question. I want to know what it is, in your perception, you think we can do or that you expect us to do to help you?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Atom Smasher said:
I didn’t say you didn’t have a right to post here.

I asked you a genuine question. I want to know what it is, in your perception, you think we can do or that you expect us to do to help you?
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Just answer my questions and I will take your advice. However, I think I need a break from this forum because I feel like it is frying my brain. My head really hurts.
 
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Unfortunately, it's not easy for me to apply what I learn because have issues and disabilities. Like on the date I didn't kiss the girl in public, I bugged out and it upset her. I ruined the whole night.
 
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Calm down OP.

Didn't I previously told you to press ur thumbs together until it hurts when ur anxiety spikes ?

The pain will override and subdue ur anxiety.

Hush now - stop posting incessantly abt the same thing.
 
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Spaz said:
Calm down OP.

Didn't I previously told you to press ur thumbs together until it hurts when ur anxiety spikes ?

The pain will override and subdue ur anxiety.

Hush now - stop posting incessantly abt the same thing.
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Call me a troll, I can't fvcking believe what I did. And this is the last time I'll say it.
 
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B0redandl0nely said:
Unfortunately, it's not easy for me to apply what I learn because have issues and disabilities. Like on the date I didn't kiss the girl in public, I bugged out and it upset her. I ruined the whole night.
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nah chad would pick out his 6'' inch phone and play minecraft on it in that very moment and she would become even more wet
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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And this is the last time I'll say it.
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That's good.

Now put into practice what some posters had advised you.

Don't do it all at once, take 1 advice at a time and practice on it.

Find one you think that is easy and then zoom into it.

It will be slow but that doesn't matter, what matters is you take action and don't get excited to the point of being obsessed.

You'll be fine, don't worry.
 
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