B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I'm not a troll just unlucky and out of my fvcking mind
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
What does this mean?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD LMAO.
yeah i had the 'kiss me now, ignore later' thing. women change mind every 5min.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
It's probably because I bugged out on the date when I realized I didn't kiss her at that moment
RetiredArchitect
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You have to remember women are insecure too.
You rejected her, which results in her pulling away.
You need to get other things to do in your life because you are acting neurotic about a girl over little details
You rejected her, which results in her pulling away.
You need to get other things to do in your life because you are acting neurotic about a girl over little details
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I want you to answer me:
What is it you think we can do for you here at SoSuave? What is it you like to see from us?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I think what I'm doing is fine. What's actually going on in my head is probably bad for my health but I think I have a right to post here as much as anybody else.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I have things to do in my life but I'm getting distracted by the things I post about
GrowingPains
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You didn't answer the question. Very BigDave of you.
The question is what do you want from us?
Not whether you deserve to post here. When you post these threads, what are you looking for?
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Advice and I'm getting it
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I didn’t say you didn’t have a right to post here.
I asked you a genuine question. I want to know what it is, in your perception, you think we can do or that you expect us to do to help you?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Just answer my questions and I will take your advice. However, I think I need a break from this forum because I feel like it is frying my brain. My head really hurts.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Unfortunately, it's not easy for me to apply what I learn because have issues and disabilities. Like on the date I didn't kiss the girl in public, I bugged out and it upset her. I ruined the whole night.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Call me a troll, I can't fvcking believe what I did. And this is the last time I'll say it.
nah chad would pick out his 6'' inch phone and play minecraft on it in that very moment and she would become even more wet
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's good.
Now put into practice what some posters had advised you.
Don't do it all at once, take 1 advice at a time and practice on it.
Find one you think that is easy and then zoom into it.
It will be slow but that doesn't matter, what matters is you take action and don't get excited to the point of being obsessed.
You'll be fine, don't worry.