She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well then as long as there's nothing blatantly wrong with my personality.just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
What makes you say that?Have you ever thought that maybe you suffer from a mental illness or possibly some other kind of emotional/brain issues?
You come across very autistic.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.Well for one @RichardTheFrog you have delusions of grandeur. Second youve been making the same threads for a year and they all revolve around the same chit constantly.
I categorize you in the same group as bigneil/listen2olly type posters. Mentally not quite "all there" and definitely have some form of obsessive compulsive thoughts on certain topics.
People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
In other words, you don't have an answer.The cope is strong with you
In other words, you don't have an answer.
What do you do for a living and how much do you make?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No I think you're stupid.Lol your pathetic
I don't really exist?I agree with Julian, your posts and this thread make you come across weird, as someone to look past or through because you don't really exist. Women obviously feel the same, maybe change your whole personality if you want to be happy. You don't seem very happy.
The things that you say make no sense.Yes, a non-entity. Automatic doors have no reaction to you so you manually pry them open with your fingers or wait for someone to walk by.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.The things that you say make no sense.
I am much more high value than you.
I turn down girls that you could never get.
I'm not a leader of men. I never claimed to be or wanted to be. I rarely associate with other guys. If I do, I'm usually paying them to do work. I think the "leader of men" thing is overrated.People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.
A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me helping out an old lady/man or someone with a disability.
Having money makes you no better than anyone else it simply gives you the ability to buy more.
Having money also attracts more of the wrong kind of woman.
If you have such disdain for people how will you ever attract anyone except those with a disdain.
So a woman is a bartender, and you make probably 7-10 times as much as she does. She's still a person just like you.
Yea I got your joke. You were saying that automatic doors don't open because I don't exist. I think a 3rd grader would get that joke. It was sarcasm. Now a person with autism wouldn't understand sarcasm, would they? It also wasn't at all a funny joke. And it was a complete waste of my time to read.They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.
What I found ironic reading your opening post was you calling people stupid while typing like a moron. I agree with Julian you are showing autistic tendencies and probably a troll.
Lastly, you don't turn down women mate, you struggle to talk to them, even while drunk then you come on a forum to brag about money you're not even making yet.
Autism.
So what would make me higher value?just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.