I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well then as long as there's nothing blatantly wrong with my personality.just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
What makes you say that?Have you ever thought that maybe you suffer from a mental illness or possibly some other kind of emotional/brain issues?
You come across very autistic.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.Well for one @RichardTheFrog you have delusions of grandeur. Second youve been making the same threads for a year and they all revolve around the same chit constantly.
I categorize you in the same group as bigneil/listen2olly type posters. Mentally not quite "all there" and definitely have some form of obsessive compulsive thoughts on certain topics.
People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
In other words, you don't have an answer.The cope is strong with you
In other words, you don't have an answer.
What do you do for a living and how much do you make?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No I think you're stupid.Lol your pathetic
I don't really exist?I agree with Julian, your posts and this thread make you come across weird, as someone to look past or through because you don't really exist. Women obviously feel the same, maybe change your whole personality if you want to be happy. You don't seem very happy.
The things that you say make no sense.Yes, a non-entity. Automatic doors have no reaction to you so you manually pry them open with your fingers or wait for someone to walk by.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.The things that you say make no sense.
I am much more high value than you.
I turn down girls that you could never get.
I'm not a leader of men. I never claimed to be or wanted to be. I rarely associate with other guys. If I do, I'm usually paying them to do work. I think the "leader of men" thing is overrated.People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.
A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me helping out an old lady/man or someone with a disability.
Having money makes you no better than anyone else it simply gives you the ability to buy more.
Having money also attracts more of the wrong kind of woman.
If you have such disdain for people how will you ever attract anyone except those with a disdain.
So a woman is a bartender, and you make probably 7-10 times as much as she does. She's still a person just like you.
Yea I got your joke. You were saying that automatic doors don't open because I don't exist. I think a 3rd grader would get that joke. It was sarcasm. Now a person with autism wouldn't understand sarcasm, would they? It also wasn't at all a funny joke. And it was a complete waste of my time to read.They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.
What I found ironic reading your opening post was you calling people stupid while typing like a moron. I agree with Julian you are showing autistic tendencies and probably a troll.
Lastly, you don't turn down women mate, you struggle to talk to them, even while drunk then you come on a forum to brag about money you're not even making yet.
Autism.
So what would make me higher value?just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.