"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Went down town last night...
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Well then as long as there's nothing blatantly wrong with my personality.just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
As full of myself as I seem at times, I only act that way depending on the situation.
If a hot girl is trying to tell the world that she has value just because of her looks, then I will need to match her ego.
I'm also surprisingly humble and down to Earth at times. There are homeless people down town that I talk to because I remember them from jail. Most other people just ignore them.
I would love to be humble all the time, but I don't think that's how the dating world works. And unless I stay on guard, I will get used.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
What makes you say that?Have you ever thought that maybe you suffer from a mental illness or possibly some other kind of emotional/brain issues?
You come across very autistic.
I categorize you in the same group as bigneil/listen2olly type posters. Mentally not quite "all there" and definitely have some form of obsessive compulsive thoughts on certain topics.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.Well for one @RichardTheFrog you have delusions of grandeur. Second youve been making the same threads for a year and they all revolve around the same chit constantly.
I categorize you in the same group as bigneil/listen2olly type posters. Mentally not quite "all there" and definitely have some form of obsessive compulsive thoughts on certain topics.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
SuckItUp
Senior Don Juan
People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me helping out an old lady/man or someone with a disability.
Having money makes you no better than anyone else it simply gives you the ability to buy more.
Having money also attracts more of the wrong kind of woman.
If you have such disdain for people how will you ever attract anyone except those with a disdain.
So a woman is a bartender, and you make probably 7-10 times as much as she does. She's still a person just like you.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
The cope is strong with you
RichardTheFrog
Banned
In other words, you don't have an answer.The cope is strong with you
What do you do for a living and how much do you make?
In other words, you don't have an answer.
What do you do for a living and how much do you make?
Lol your pathetic
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
No I think you're stupid.Lol your pathetic
Murk
Master Don Juan
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I don't really exist?I agree with Julian, your posts and this thread make you come across weird, as someone to look past or through because you don't really exist. Women obviously feel the same, maybe change your whole personality if you want to be happy. You don't seem very happy.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
The things that you say make no sense.Yes, a non-entity. Automatic doors have no reaction to you so you manually pry them open with your fingers or wait for someone to walk by.
I am much more high value than you.
I turn down girls that you could never get.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Murk
Master Don Juan
They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.The things that you say make no sense.
I am much more high value than you.
I turn down girls that you could never get.
What I found ironic reading your opening post was you calling people stupid while typing like a moron. I agree with Julian you are showing autistic tendencies and probably a troll.
Lastly, you don't turn down women mate, you struggle to talk to them, even while drunk then you come on a forum to brag about money you're not even making yet.
Autism.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I'm not a leader of men. I never claimed to be or wanted to be. I rarely associate with other guys. If I do, I'm usually paying them to do work. I think the "leader of men" thing is overrated.People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.
A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me helping out an old lady/man or someone with a disability.
Having money makes you no better than anyone else it simply gives you the ability to buy more.
Having money also attracts more of the wrong kind of woman.
If you have such disdain for people how will you ever attract anyone except those with a disdain.
So a woman is a bartender, and you make probably 7-10 times as much as she does. She's still a person just like you.
We're not talking about intrinsic value. By that logic, everyone is the same. We're talking about SEXUAL MARKET VALUE (which I'm still not sure actually exists). In this case, making lots of money does give you a higher value.
Wouldn't these same bartenders who are "still a person just like me" have ignored me like I didn't exist if I were homeless? And, by the way, bartending is actually a very good job. They make a good amount of money... but not on the type of level that I'm trying to make. It's very hard to break into making tons of money unless you got lucky at some point along the way.
Even Mark Zuckerburg (I think he's the 3rd richest person in the world) will tell you that he mostly just got lucky. He's not even an outstanding computer programmer.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Yea I got your joke. You were saying that automatic doors don't open because I don't exist. I think a 3rd grader would get that joke. It was sarcasm. Now a person with autism wouldn't understand sarcasm, would they? It also wasn't at all a funny joke. And it was a complete waste of my time to read.They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.
What I found ironic reading your opening post was you calling people stupid while typing like a moron. I agree with Julian you are showing autistic tendencies and probably a troll.
Lastly, you don't turn down women mate, you struggle to talk to them, even while drunk then you come on a forum to brag about money you're not even making yet.
Autism.
So should I wait until I flip one house and then come back? If it takes me 4 months to make $28,000 flipping one house, then that increases my income by $84,000/year, which gives me a total of $171,000/year. And that's before I even do anything fancy with financing so that I can flip much more than just one at a time. So this puts my income well into the top 1% range. But apparently that's not value? Are you sure?
I don't type like a moron.
Please post pictures of all the drug-addicted trashy skanks that you're currently "in love" with.
I may struggle to talk to them down town, but I have no trouble online, assuming they respond to the conversation. But also have you ever heard girls down town talk? Many of them are pretty ****ing stupid. I can overhear them talking about their favorite hip-hop songs, which if you don't know that's stupid then I don't know what to tell you.
I get IOI's from attractive girls very often. Several times per week. I probably don't pursue because I don't think I'm really interested in a relationship. I don't think many girls are willing just to be someone's **** buddy with no commitment after a certain age.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
So what would make me higher value?just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
And what makes HER high value? The fact that she has a butt?
Murk
Master Don Juan
I observe you to be an extremely low value human with zero endearing traits or qualities and I'm sure women find you quite the joke. Well they would if you managed to speak to them.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.