When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well then as long as there's nothing blatantly wrong with my personality.just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
What makes you say that?Have you ever thought that maybe you suffer from a mental illness or possibly some other kind of emotional/brain issues?
You come across very autistic.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.Well for one @RichardTheFrog you have delusions of grandeur. Second youve been making the same threads for a year and they all revolve around the same chit constantly.
I categorize you in the same group as bigneil/listen2olly type posters. Mentally not quite "all there" and definitely have some form of obsessive compulsive thoughts on certain topics.
People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
In other words, you don't have an answer.The cope is strong with you
In other words, you don't have an answer.
What do you do for a living and how much do you make?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No I think you're stupid.Lol your pathetic
I don't really exist?I agree with Julian, your posts and this thread make you come across weird, as someone to look past or through because you don't really exist. Women obviously feel the same, maybe change your whole personality if you want to be happy. You don't seem very happy.
The things that you say make no sense.Yes, a non-entity. Automatic doors have no reaction to you so you manually pry them open with your fingers or wait for someone to walk by.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.The things that you say make no sense.
I am much more high value than you.
I turn down girls that you could never get.
I'm not a leader of men. I never claimed to be or wanted to be. I rarely associate with other guys. If I do, I'm usually paying them to do work. I think the "leader of men" thing is overrated.People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.
A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me helping out an old lady/man or someone with a disability.
Having money makes you no better than anyone else it simply gives you the ability to buy more.
Having money also attracts more of the wrong kind of woman.
If you have such disdain for people how will you ever attract anyone except those with a disdain.
So a woman is a bartender, and you make probably 7-10 times as much as she does. She's still a person just like you.
Yea I got your joke. You were saying that automatic doors don't open because I don't exist. I think a 3rd grader would get that joke. It was sarcasm. Now a person with autism wouldn't understand sarcasm, would they? It also wasn't at all a funny joke. And it was a complete waste of my time to read.They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.
What I found ironic reading your opening post was you calling people stupid while typing like a moron. I agree with Julian you are showing autistic tendencies and probably a troll.
Lastly, you don't turn down women mate, you struggle to talk to them, even while drunk then you come on a forum to brag about money you're not even making yet.
Autism.
So what would make me higher value?just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.