Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Well then as long as there's nothing blatantly wrong with my personality.just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
What makes you say that?Have you ever thought that maybe you suffer from a mental illness or possibly some other kind of emotional/brain issues?
You come across very autistic.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.Well for one @RichardTheFrog you have delusions of grandeur. Second youve been making the same threads for a year and they all revolve around the same chit constantly.
I categorize you in the same group as bigneil/listen2olly type posters. Mentally not quite "all there" and definitely have some form of obsessive compulsive thoughts on certain topics.
People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.
So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?
I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
In other words, you don't have an answer.The cope is strong with you
In other words, you don't have an answer.
What do you do for a living and how much do you make?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No I think you're stupid.Lol your pathetic
I don't really exist?I agree with Julian, your posts and this thread make you come across weird, as someone to look past or through because you don't really exist. Women obviously feel the same, maybe change your whole personality if you want to be happy. You don't seem very happy.
The things that you say make no sense.Yes, a non-entity. Automatic doors have no reaction to you so you manually pry them open with your fingers or wait for someone to walk by.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.The things that you say make no sense.
I am much more high value than you.
I turn down girls that you could never get.
I'm not a leader of men. I never claimed to be or wanted to be. I rarely associate with other guys. If I do, I'm usually paying them to do work. I think the "leader of men" thing is overrated.People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.
A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me helping out an old lady/man or someone with a disability.
Having money makes you no better than anyone else it simply gives you the ability to buy more.
Having money also attracts more of the wrong kind of woman.
If you have such disdain for people how will you ever attract anyone except those with a disdain.
So a woman is a bartender, and you make probably 7-10 times as much as she does. She's still a person just like you.
Yea I got your joke. You were saying that automatic doors don't open because I don't exist. I think a 3rd grader would get that joke. It was sarcasm. Now a person with autism wouldn't understand sarcasm, would they? It also wasn't at all a funny joke. And it was a complete waste of my time to read.They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.
What I found ironic reading your opening post was you calling people stupid while typing like a moron. I agree with Julian you are showing autistic tendencies and probably a troll.
Lastly, you don't turn down women mate, you struggle to talk to them, even while drunk then you come on a forum to brag about money you're not even making yet.
Autism.
So what would make me higher value?just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.