"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
Well then as long as there's nothing blatantly wrong with my personality.

As full of myself as I seem at times, I only act that way depending on the situation.

If a hot girl is trying to tell the world that she has value just because of her looks, then I will need to match her ego.

I'm also surprisingly humble and down to Earth at times. There are homeless people down town that I talk to because I remember them from jail. Most other people just ignore them.

I would love to be humble all the time, but I don't think that's how the dating world works. And unless I stay on guard, I will get used.
 

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Have you ever thought that maybe you suffer from a mental illness or possibly some other kind of emotional/brain issues?

You come across very autistic.
 

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Well for one @RichardTheFrog you have delusions of grandeur. Second youve been making the same threads for a year and they all revolve around the same chit constantly.

I categorize you in the same group as bigneil/listen2olly type posters. Mentally not quite "all there" and definitely have some form of obsessive compulsive thoughts on certain topics.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well for one @RichardTheFrog you have delusions of grandeur. Second youve been making the same threads for a year and they all revolve around the same chit constantly.

I categorize you in the same group as bigneil/listen2olly type posters. Mentally not quite "all there" and definitely have some form of obsessive compulsive thoughts on certain topics.
That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.

So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?

I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
 

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That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.

So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?

I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.
People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.

A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me helping out an old lady/man or someone with a disability.

Having money makes you no better than anyone else it simply gives you the ability to buy more.

Having money also attracts more of the wrong kind of woman.

If you have such disdain for people how will you ever attract anyone except those with a disdain.

So a woman is a bartender, and you make probably 7-10 times as much as she does. She's still a person just like you.
 

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That's funny. I'm pretty sure I've only been on this forum for less than 4 months.

So by saying that I'm going to make a lot of money makes me delusional? Being ambitious makes me delusional? Or is the fact that I consider myself to have higher value than the people who fill people's drinks with alcohol and smile and hope for a tip?

I'm not all there? Tell me what you do with your brain that is so impressive.

The cope is strong with you
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I agree with Julian, your posts and this thread make you come across weird, as someone to look past or through because you don't really exist. Women obviously feel the same, maybe change your whole personality if you want to be happy. You don't seem very happy.
 
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I agree with Julian, your posts and this thread make you come across weird, as someone to look past or through because you don't really exist. Women obviously feel the same, maybe change your whole personality if you want to be happy. You don't seem very happy.
I don't really exist?
 

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Yes, a non-entity. Automatic doors have no reaction to you so you manually pry them open with your fingers or wait for someone to walk by.
 
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Yes, a non-entity. Automatic doors have no reaction to you so you manually pry them open with your fingers or wait for someone to walk by.
The things that you say make no sense.

I am much more high value than you.

I turn down girls that you could never get.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The things that you say make no sense.

I am much more high value than you.

I turn down girls that you could never get.
They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.

What I found ironic reading your opening post was you calling people stupid while typing like a moron. I agree with Julian you are showing autistic tendencies and probably a troll.

Lastly, you don't turn down women mate, you struggle to talk to them, even while drunk then you come on a forum to brag about money you're not even making yet.

Autism.
 
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People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot.

A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me helping out an old lady/man or someone with a disability.

Having money makes you no better than anyone else it simply gives you the ability to buy more.

Having money also attracts more of the wrong kind of woman.

If you have such disdain for people how will you ever attract anyone except those with a disdain.

So a woman is a bartender, and you make probably 7-10 times as much as she does. She's still a person just like you.
I'm not a leader of men. I never claimed to be or wanted to be. I rarely associate with other guys. If I do, I'm usually paying them to do work. I think the "leader of men" thing is overrated.

We're not talking about intrinsic value. By that logic, everyone is the same. We're talking about SEXUAL MARKET VALUE (which I'm still not sure actually exists). In this case, making lots of money does give you a higher value.

Wouldn't these same bartenders who are "still a person just like me" have ignored me like I didn't exist if I were homeless? And, by the way, bartending is actually a very good job. They make a good amount of money... but not on the type of level that I'm trying to make. It's very hard to break into making tons of money unless you got lucky at some point along the way.

Even Mark Zuckerburg (I think he's the 3rd richest person in the world) will tell you that he mostly just got lucky. He's not even an outstanding computer programmer.
 
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They don't make sense because you're not nearly as intelligent as you think you are.

What I found ironic reading your opening post was you calling people stupid while typing like a moron. I agree with Julian you are showing autistic tendencies and probably a troll.

Lastly, you don't turn down women mate, you struggle to talk to them, even while drunk then you come on a forum to brag about money you're not even making yet.

Autism.
Yea I got your joke. You were saying that automatic doors don't open because I don't exist. I think a 3rd grader would get that joke. It was sarcasm. Now a person with autism wouldn't understand sarcasm, would they? It also wasn't at all a funny joke. And it was a complete waste of my time to read.

So should I wait until I flip one house and then come back? If it takes me 4 months to make $28,000 flipping one house, then that increases my income by $84,000/year, which gives me a total of $171,000/year. And that's before I even do anything fancy with financing so that I can flip much more than just one at a time. So this puts my income well into the top 1% range. But apparently that's not value? Are you sure?

I don't type like a moron.

Please post pictures of all the drug-addicted trashy skanks that you're currently "in love" with.

I may struggle to talk to them down town, but I have no trouble online, assuming they respond to the conversation. But also have you ever heard girls down town talk? Many of them are pretty ****ing stupid. I can overhear them talking about their favorite hip-hop songs, which if you don't know that's stupid then I don't know what to tell you.

I get IOI's from attractive girls very often. Several times per week. I probably don't pursue because I don't think I'm really interested in a relationship. I don't think many girls are willing just to be someone's **** buddy with no commitment after a certain age.
 
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just because you make more money than someone does not make you higher value..
it's plenty creepy rich guys no one gives a f*ck about it.
So what would make me higher value?

And what makes HER high value? The fact that she has a butt?
 

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Having money will make you more attractive to females yes, but so does being attractive, funny, confident, outgoing, charming etc. In the grand scheme of things, money you haven't earned yet versus all of the above makes you pretty much fvcking useless and insignificant, hence me saying you don't exist. I wasnt really making a joke, more of an observation.

I observe you to be an extremely low value human with zero endearing traits or qualities and I'm sure women find you quite the joke. Well they would if you managed to speak to them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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