Stripper Question?

[Tedhe]

I think after reading these threads that I am thinking to much on this s*it, if I wanna see her I should just go - if she flakes - whatever

Letting some stupid fear of rejection get me

 

[MrWiggles]

Never contact her again and save your money to take real girls out for a beer and bang the crap out of them. Pretend they are strippers if you have to but do not, I repeat DO NOT spend any more money on this stripper thinking that is the key to filling her up with your vanilla glaze. I have only banged one stripper, not too long ago and I spent nothing on her. Met her at the mall though and didn't know she was a stripper til afterward.

 

[marmel75]

Never contact her again and save your money to take real girls out for a beer and bang the crap out of them. Pretend they are strippers if you have to but do not, I repeat DO NOT spend any more money on this stripper thinking that is the key to filling her up with your vanilla glaze. I have only banged one stripper, not too long ago and I spent nothing on her. Met her at the mall though and didn't know she was a stripper til afterward.

Yup, these chicks are masters at manipulating guys into spending money on them and feigning interest until it comes time to put out...there will always be some excuse as to why or promises for next time....

 

[marmel75]

Dont care at all what she does with other guys, as mentioned im in open relationships - more curious on how to reapproach/respond after coming across as weak.

- do nothing?
- don't care?
- keep doing what I was doing before?
Etc

Question is more about regaining power - stripper part is secondary

You have no power. You are giving her something and getting nothing in return. That's called a suckers bet.

 

[Tedhe]

You have no power. You are giving her something and getting nothing in return. That's called a suckers bet.

Well said.

It's a great point. I honestly don't even care about f*cking her - I just wanna keep the fun in the VIP going - unsure if coming across as weak effects that

 

[Tedhe]

Never contact her again and save your money to take real girls out for a beer and bang the crap out of them. Pretend they are strippers if you have to but do not, I repeat DO NOT spend any more money on this stripper thinking that is the key to filling her up with your vanilla glaze. I have only banged one stripper, not too long ago and I spent nothing on her. Met her at the mall though and didn't know she was a stripper til afterward.

Money ain't the issue - thankfully - just want to keep the fantasy alive. I get value out of that fantasy

 

[Tedhe]

You have no power. You are giving her something and getting nothing in return. That's called a suckers bet.

I have consistent **** buddies, just enjoying the fantasy of this all

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Power is to the person who takes the money.

And/or the time.

 

[Tedhe]

And/or the time.

How so?

 

[skinnyguy]

The fact that she is a stripper shows that she is a broken woman. Either pound her silly or move to the next woman.

You spent a lot of money on a sporting event for a ***** which shows that your priorities are messed up.

 

[marmel75]

I have consistent **** buddies, just enjoying the fantasy of this all

Fantasies are for women to engage in

 

[Tedhe]

Fantasies are for women to engage in

Disagree 100%

Tell me that when you tie a beautiful girl up and get into some fun role playing stuff....

 

[marmel75]

Disagree 100%

Tell me that when you for a beautiful girl up and get into some fun role playing stuff....

Nope I dominate her...she can play with you, lol

 

[Tedhe]

Nope I dominate her...she can play with you, lol

I like that response

To each there own!

 

[Dingo]

One thing I have learned is never to apologize.... it just shows weakness and neediness..... it brings attention to the "infraction"... often times it is already forgotten by your mate.

Hard to do because as you said we are human.