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I syill think its healthier for a man to get some puzzy. As long as he doesn't degrade himself in the process.
The problem was that I did used to degrade myself. In my mid 20's I NEEDED validation from Women and that gave them all the power. I was fuelled by my own Ego until I crashed and burned. I'm not exactly sitting around waiting for Mrs Right but my standards have improved greatly.
 
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Part 1

I'm reading a lot of whiny posts about how bad women are etc. etc., and I actually do agree with a lot of what is being said about them.

I've been on both sides of the OLD/Dating App revolution and can tell you with 100% confidence they have made dating much, much WORSE for the marriage, LTR market. They are mandatory if your thing is STRs, ONSs, FWBs. I use them for this with good results.

I would agree that over the past 15+ years women's behavior towards men has gotten worse (disrespect, bratty, wannabe princess, lack of effort) due to hyperinflation of their SMV as a result mainly of dating apps and social media and all the fake validation and mostly the Paradox of Choice. This is 100% fact.

I would also state that both men and women 20-40 are largely incapable of LTRs, marriage, and pair bonding because they lack the basic tools to do so. By tools I mean, this generation has been SO sheltered, coddled, and protected from failure that they just simply don't know how to solve problems and challenges that invariably and WILL DEFINITELY come up in any relationship. They cannot talk, problem solve, unless it's over chat or text.

For this group, as soon as a LTR or even marriage hits a few challenges one or both hit the eject button because they lack the emotional maturity and said interpersonal "tools" to talk and work through these challenges. Now, throw in dating apps, social media, over-reliance on technology (text vs talk and NIP Syndrome), and the fact that this age group has been brought up on an over-abundance of sugar-coated Disney and Pixar movies and you have a perfect storm for legions of couples who have ZERO clue on how to make a relationship actually work. "Oh, we had a fight. This person is SO not for me (swipe, swipe swipe...)."

But...(to be continued in Part 2)
 

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But...women 20-40 have VERY LITTLE to choose from in terms of quality "men."

For the most part, these "men" (90+%) lack goals, are very low T (scientific fact, Google it), over-emotional, effeminate, out of shape, and more invested in their video game collection than actually starting a business or furthering their career.

So, for women this can be very frustrating as these men have ZERO clue on what a woman wants. So yes, women date around, look for validation, ride the carousel, dump guys like throw-away candy wrappers...and the guys have no clue why.

It's because YOU (SS Guy) are not displaying the qualities she's naturally (not "learned") attracted to. They are, in no particular order:

-Confidence
-Self Control
-Challenge
-Purpose
-Drive
-Charisma
-COMMUNICATION (not text, not online, actual TALKING)
-Self respect

There are others but those are the main ones. Notice how looks and money didn't make the cut. That's because women who put those things at the top of their list ARE NOT worth pursuing. F*ucking them? OK, and I've done a lot of these types. But not GF or LTR material.

So before you start ranting and whining and creating all kinds of excuses, look in the mirror, and conduct an honest assessment. How do you match up to the list?

Are you a MAN or BOY? Start there.

Good luck.

~Dash~
 

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I don't really get it to be quite honest, because I've seen these men try to go out with women. It seems the real issue is that women simply just don't want men in today's society. They'd rather stay at home and play with their vibrator while waiting for god knows what.
No, these women are not playing with their vibrators or watching TV, they are looking for some good sex with some hot guy, they are thinking about sex more than what they want us to believe, but they are just shamed of admitting that.
the decent guys you mentioned , are considered "every day" guys for these women , they are not priority, only a spare tire when thing get hard on these women they start looking for one of these spare tires.
 

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From reliable sources, men's average shagging is 5 in an entire lifetime.

Does well to keep that in mind when you compare yourself. All guys think they are missing something. I sure as fck ain't lol

Hence my temporal presence. Immature sh1te that I feel like I might be missing something something good, and I literally never am.

I'd say like 95% of the manosphere are having a laugh. How do you know? Go out and do it. Literally never had that problem and find it inexcusable. Should never rely on other people to tell you how the game is ever. And I have corresponded personally inset or over the internet with some of the very best.

Can't remember the saying. Water seeks it's level. Cream of the crop. Etc.

No way could it be that low. 5? No chance. Plenty of single moms, fatties and bi-polar ladies to use as bunker busters.
 
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This is a the epitome of a weak male. Any lady would leave him. Brains yes, but he put his b!tch on a peddlestill. Can't do that sh!t.
I agree, probably why Japan's population is decreasing at record rate.
 

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No, these women are not playing with their vibrators or watching TV, they are looking for some good sex with some hot guy, they are thinking about sex more than what they want us to believe, but they are just shamed of admitting that.
the decent guys you mentioned , are considered "every day" guys for these women , they are not priority, only a spare tire when thing get hard on these women they start looking for one of these spare tires.
I find that hard to believe, I'm 6'4", in amazing shape with a nice body, an attractive guy and well endowed and I get nothing but rejection. If they are doing it to me they sure as hell are going long periods without, as finding a guy like that or better is rare in the real world.
 

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I find that hard to believe, I'm 6'4", in amazing shape with a nice body, an attractive guy and well endowed and I get nothing but rejection. If they are doing it to me they sure as hell are going long periods without, as finding a guy like that or better is rare in the real world.
What about more lesbians now, and girls who fool around with each other in order to get their sexual fix in? I see a lot of Bi girls on Tinder and OLD and not all of them are butch looking dykes.

Not saying that might be a big reason but that's an angle that should be looked at in recent years as well. More people are gay?

But then like in your case I'll see a decent chick with a fat, balding lardball or a guy a lot older than them and then guys like yourself get rejection. I get rejection too but then see greaseball guys with HB 8s and wonder how they do it dressing like a slob, fat, etc. I'm slim, stay in shape and wear good clothing and have the same problem as you're describing.
 

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I agree, probably why Japan's population is decreasing at record rate.
I think the dudes in Japan just rather be by themselves it seems. They work, they eat and they get their kicks from porn and used panties (there are actually vending machines with used ladies panties. Unreal). They are true dudes going their own way (JMGTOW). That could be the future of many dudes in the world.
 
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I think the dudes in Japan just rather be by themselves it seems. They work, they eat and they get their kicks from porn and used panties (there are actually vending machines with used ladies panties. Unreal). They are true dudes going their own way (JMGTOW). That could be the future of many dudes in the world.
Then I need to go to japan and get one of these hot Japanese girls since it seems easier and less competition over there.
 

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What about more lesbians now, and girls who fool around with each other in order to get their sexual fix in? I see a lot of Bi girls on Tinder and OLD and not all of them are butch looking dykes.

Not saying that might be a big reason but that's an angle that should be looked at in recent years as well. More people are gay?

But then like in your case I'll see a decent chick with a fat, balding lardball or a guy a lot older than them and then guys like yourself get rejection. I get rejection too but then see greaseball guys with HB 8s and wonder how they do it dressing like a slob, fat, etc. I'm slim, stay in shape and wear good clothing and have the same problem as you're describing.
Just goes to show women do not care one iota what a man IS or his aesthetics, but what he can DO for her at any given time. You're throwawayable.
 

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Let's keep it 100: East Asia, Southeast Asia and South Asia(India) have self-hate issues. They're into skin bleaching and worship white men.

You'll be treated like a celebrity there. Just be aware that if you ever marry and produce kids with an asian female you might just spawn aother Elliot Rodger because white/asian mixed race males tend to have psychological issues....
 
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Let's keep it 100: East Asia, Southeast Asia and South Asia(India) have self-hate issues. They're into skin bleaching and worship white men.

You'll be treated like a celebrity there. Just be aware that if you ever marry and produce kids with an asian female you might just spawn aother Elliot Rodger because white/asian mixed race males tend to have psychological issues....
What about Japan and Korea? I would so plow a girl like Jo Kuk-hyang. I'd make her a 3 hole wonder. She's so fine!! Just don't tell the Marshal that.

 
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I find that hard to believe, I'm 6'4", in amazing shape with a nice body, an attractive guy and well endowed and I get nothing but rejection.
You should be doing pretty good with Women if you atleast have the physical part down. Maybe it's your approach that's throwing things off. Rejections happen to many of us but should still be able to clean up better than most guys.
 

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You should be doing pretty good with Women if you atleast have the physical part down. Maybe it's your approach that's throwing things off. Rejections happen to many of us but should still be able to clean up better than most guys.
He uses an elitist mindset which feels chatting a female waitress, bartender, warehouse worker, etc is boring. So they hate each other.
 

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He uses an elitist mindset which feels chatting a female waitress, bartender, warehouse worker, etc is boring. So they hate each other.
Then that's the problem. A good looking guy should be able to clean up with Women.
 
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