Seems like most men are single

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I don't think the medium itself matters that much, it doesn't matter whether it's on OLD, clubs or cold approach, women generally don't want to be contacted by unknown men who are not around the cream of the crop. That's why PUA cold approaching gets into the news as a scandal reported to the police, eliminating it as a viable outlet for most men along with OLD and clubs.
 
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Because of so much horse**** a good man has to go to get that pony. Legions of afc are feeding them (girl) nowdays. It doesn't surprises me anymore when I walk throught the mall, I see attractive women walks with their man who will follow them like a puppies, they'll even take below average looks man just to feed their feminism ego.
 

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I think men are having a hard time adjusting to the changing dating landscape dynamic brought on by social media.

Before social media women got their validation from interactions with men in real life. Now they can get that validation fix by posting pics on instagram so they dont even have to interact with random "creepy" dudes.

* This lack of interaction causes a drought for men.

* So now guys are forced to go online to "spit game".

* which causes an over-saturation of thirsty guys feeding a woman's validation addiction.

* which artificially inflates her sense of self worth aka SMV

* which leads her to believe she's entiled to super Chads.

* which causes more droughts for guys less than 8/10

* which leads to them to OLD-maxxing even more

And the cycle continues.

This explains the phenomena of guys who are 7/10 but are Incels, and land-whales who think they're entitled to a 6'3" blond hair blue eyed super Chad.
OLD and social media are modern day siren songs for men. A temptation singing to fulfill your dreams of pvssy, but it's just a mirage wasting the energy you should have used to build a satisfying lifestyle. The sooner you pretend those venues don't exist the faster your mindset can adjust to meeting women through a lifestyle with women in it that you also enjoy in of itself.

I haven't clubbed for years, but with the ego boosting from social media and OLD that those same girls would use, I suspect they are even worse now than when I was going. The only girl who IOI'ed me at a club boat last year I found later was a single mom. And they're not enjoyable to be in either. Other than that it didn't seem like anyone was actually there to meet anyone, not just me, or at least from what I saw nothing was going on. Fvck clubbing too lol.
 
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Because of so much horse**** a good man has to go to get that pony. Legions of afc are feeding them (girl) nowdays. It doesn't surprises me anymore when I walk throught the mall, I see attractive women walks with their man who will follow them like a puppies, they'll even take below average looks man just to feed their feminism ego.
Their crushing mens nowadays looking around, flirting with waiters and others in his presence. You cant smack her in the mouth...
 

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The link to this was posted the other day, it's truly mind blowing to say the least.


I've seen legitimately decent/above average men hound dog on ugly women online, not specifically with what I posted above but fairly close lol.
"You can explain most male behavior with one word: scarcity.
Likewise, women: abundance.
Unless you've spun plates you will NEVER really understand womens' perspective."
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Because of so much horse**** a good man has to go to get that pony. Legions of afc are feeding them (girl) nowdays. It doesn't surprises me anymore when I walk throught the mall, I see attractive women walks with their man who will follow them like a puppies, they'll even take below average looks man just to feed their feminism ego.
I agree. Feminism sucks. 60 years ago men didnt have much problem finding a partner or getting married. So much worse now.
 

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What's REALLY amazing to me are the guys that think they're killing it in the game but are really going on a few dates a month and haven't had a girlfriend since 2010 or something. If you were to say "yeah the game seems tough these days" they would lash out with pride and ego based on such a pittance compared to what even a basic azz woman can get.
 

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What's REALLY amazing to me are the guys that think they're killing it in the game but are really going on a few dates a month and haven't had a girlfriend since 2010 or something. If you were to say "yeah the game seems tough these days" they would lash out with pride and ego based on such a pittance compared to what even a basic azz woman can get.
Relatively speaking going on a few dates per month is actually far better than what a lot of guys have going for them. However, even if you are actually going out on a date hardly anything ever comes from that.

I think if you haven't locked down a woman by the time you are around 25 it becomes progressively more and more difficult the older you get.

I'm going to be 30 next year and I don't even recognize the vast majority of women around my age as potential dating prospects. I generally think they are a decade older than me and I find out they are my age lol.
 
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What's REALLY amazing to me are the guys that think they're killing it in the game but are really going on a few dates a month and haven't had a girlfriend since 2010 or something. If you were to say "yeah the game seems tough these days" they would lash out with pride and ego based on such a pittance compared to what even a basic azz woman can get.
I may not have been on a date in sometime but believe me I’ve been getting it in. But there’s your problem you spend to much time thinking about the next person. I do agree that the girls with tattoos and attitudes are very hard to be around but I avoid those types. I mean you guys act like this is rocket science.
 

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Exit door is right here, guys:

 

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Exit door is right here, guys:

I've been pseduo MGTOW my entire life, never been in a relationship and never met a single decent woman. I haven't totally given up and I do believe there are good women out there, the only issue is they are all taken and the ones that aren't are so rare they might as well be unicorns.

I am not the only man who deals with this.
 

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Have you seen the quality of women out there? I just saw a land whale on facebook telling the world she demands to come home to "I love you" written in candles on the bedroom floor. So jumping through a thousand hoops and dancing like a monkey gets you sex with a 21st century mess that can't even open a can baked beans. Is this the prize? What else do we get in return? It used to be babies (they killed all the babies) so now the return when you consider expenses and the sheer ballache of it all is below nothing
funny you mention that, in the last 48 years there has been over 50 million abortions in the US alone.
 

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Relatively speaking going on a few dates per month is actually far better than what a lot of guys have going for them. However, even if you are actually going out on a date hardly anything ever comes from that.

I think if you haven't locked down a woman by the time you are around 25 it becomes progressively more and more difficult the older you get.

I'm going to be 30 next year and I don't even recognize the vast majority of women around my age as potential dating prospects. I generally think they are a decade older than me and I find out they are my age lol.
I agree. I could have had a few more dates the last month but I just wasnt interested in them for various reasons like distance. its hard for me because most of the ones I match with are almost 50 miles away so most are not interested in a guy that far away .

Also more than a few dates a month is not only time consuming but costly too when chances are you won't get a second date or anything long term.
 
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We observe a race to increase in value and effort when it comes of guys and a race to decreare in value and effort when it comes of women.

The funny thing is that the more the average woman is crap and the more the average man get decent, the setting becomes better for women and worse for men.

In my early 20s I was travelling europe already even before that became my job, I couldnt explain how in certain countries women despite being uglier and less pleasable in terms of personality were more in demand in their own contries compared to others that were stunners and amazing to deal with yet getting only lukewarm attention from the average men in their place.

Needless to say it all started to change in early 10s and its almost gone now.

Personally I had my chances to have fun and I took advantage of most of them, now in my mid 30s I only see trash around me only good for short term hit and run, younger guys have all my solidarity.

Anyway it wont last long, women and relantionships have a strong effect on making a man calm and law abiding, regular sex keeps a man calm and a family makes him think twice before doing anything radical.

Once the average man doesnt release steam fast enough and has no reason to play it safe, our societies will face major changes and not for the good.

Think of a bar brawl but on a bigger more elaborated scale.

Ps. libido a desire for validation are powerful foces, once the average guy get used to control the first and ignore the second the men-women relationships will change globally.
 

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What's REALLY amazing to me are the guys that think they're killing it in the game but are really going on a few dates a month and haven't had a girlfriend since 2010 or something. If you were to say "yeah the game seems tough these days" they would lash out with pride and ego based on such a pittance compared to what even a basic azz woman can get.
What’s a date? Conventional dating is out the window for me at this stage of my life. We go out for two drinks tops and then it’s back to my crib for a nightcap. Is that a date? Most dudes are out here trying to class it up and do dinner dates or fun exciting dates like rock climbing or some sh1t. Waste of time and effort if you ask me, plus it increases your investment so if it doesn’t lead to sex you feel like you failed.

Women know if they won’t **** you within the first five minutes of meeting you. That’s a Rollo quote and I think it’s dead on. Take her somewhere low key, game her a bit, find out if you are someone she will fvck and act accordingly.
 

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Out of all the dozens of men that I know, in their 20s to early 30s, only a handful of them are actually in relationships.

Now, all of these guys are all at least reasonably attractive, so not a bunch of basement dwellers or anything. What I do know is that while they do date occasionally nothing ever comes of it, which surprises me because these are all normal good guys.

I'm starting to believe that far more men are actually going completely without sex than we are lead to believe, though naturally these men aren't going to broadcast that to the world.

I don't really get it to be quite honest, because I've seen these men try to go out with women. It seems the real issue is that women simply just don't want men in today's society. They'd rather stay at home and play with their vibrator while waiting for god knows what.
Normally good guys in modern dating nor the culture is acceptable to female logic and hypergamy on tren.

The inversion being low testosterone men seek monogamy and its a bachelor paradise if you got 2/3 must haves (game, looks resources, etc).

Single bachelor lifestyle is freeing. This is home plate. A fat wife, high kill count, and gross is of no importance nor valuable.

If you are chasing excellence, if you got options, game, are sacrificing your life towards self actualisation (not women), none of it matters. Women are thrown away. They age like ****. They *****, get fat, Crater SMV, and fertility.

If you want to chase anything chase excellence. The sky falls tomorrow, i am chasing my purpose, self actualization, and the baaaaae is sport. Its fallback. Its not of any importance. Pornhub is free. What little she brings in is not worth it on a long enough time line. Do a cost evaluation. ROI of women in the west or uk? The fallout of divorce rape.

Everything is practice. #netflix&&&chill repeat.

Its not game over ever till dead or d stops.
 

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Too many women crave drama in relationships these days. Even in semi-relationships they need drama, crave it. If you don’t provide them with unlimited mind games and arguments and drama, they will not have anything to do with you and will find someone that will. No time for that ****.
 

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What's REALLY amazing to me are the guys that think they're killing it in the game but are really going on a few dates a month and haven't had a girlfriend since 2010 or something. If you were to say "yeah the game seems tough these days" they would lash out with pride and ego based on such a pittance compared to what even a basic azz woman can get.
During my best times of dating in the USA, I would have been happy at a few dates a year. :(
 
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