"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Reply for "Will you buy me a drink?"
- Thread starter Big Ballin
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dollashort
Don Juan
chick: can u buy me a drink
me: yeah but hey whats in it for me?
chick: watever answer
me: i want a kiss, not a peck on the lips, some tongue.
if she dus tongue kiss me, i would buy her a drink, wynot. when a chick asks you to buy her a drink, its a great opportunity.
however if she is not hot, or u just dont buy chiks drinks full stop, then MVplayer's replies were hectic.
jettiger
New Member
I only spent $1 on her."You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
jiveturkey
Don Juan
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u: ****dont say anything to her, just go buy 2 beers and walk off..drink em both or give one to a buddy***
Me: (turn it around) "What? You want to buy me a drink and fill me up, alright? And then you'll get me so messed up, I will probably end up coming home with YOU?"
Then tell her what you'd like to drink and carry on convo.
kiko
Don Juan
Me: Ill think about that, I'll tell you in the morning when your cooking me breakfast. I like my eggs runny.
you :" is that the best pick up line you can come up with?, I'm not that easy"
or
you:" you are trying to pick me up, shouldn't YOU buy me a drink?"
or
you: " I know what you are doing, you are trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me!! I'm not "That" easy "
or
you: "order two drink and right before the bartender brings the beer to you, just said "I saw a friend over there, I'll be right back" and walk away and talk to someone and never come back, she will either have to wait for you to return or have to pay for both because the bartender is waiting, and we all know that would be rude if she don't pay, don't we
when she walk over with your beer just take it as if nothing had happen and said thanksandari
Don Juan
andari----------------sure meet me at my place in an hour
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
andari
Don Juan
thats hot. she might be mad that you just ignored her but that is a good way around it. in DC we call that "flipping it"
dude just flipped it on her.
Brother_Rapp
Banned
Me: You ain't gave me any money to buy you a drink with.
Her: What you mean?
Me: If you gave me $100 and I went out and spent it on another woman, how would you feel about it? You'd be pissed off. I'm like a bank. You put something in I can spend. Her you are trying to bound a check. You know that I can't let you do that.
HurricaneBilly
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Me: No,will you buy me one , get me all pissy drunk and take advantage of me, not respect me in the morning and then try it on with all of my friends?
Her: Ahhhhh No...
Me:Well there goes MY gameplan, laters...
:crackup:
Poindexter
Don Juan
'Why, are you underaged?'
brat-buster
Don Juan
depends......what's in it for me?
or try this at a strip club when a girl ask's you if you want a dance.
Her: would you like a lap dance?
me: hummmm......it depends.
herr: on what?
me: How much money do you have to spend?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.