"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Reply for "Will you buy me a drink?"
- Thread starter Big Ballin
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dollashort
Don Juan
chick: can u buy me a drink
me: yeah but hey whats in it for me?
chick: watever answer
me: i want a kiss, not a peck on the lips, some tongue.
if she dus tongue kiss me, i would buy her a drink, wynot. when a chick asks you to buy her a drink, its a great opportunity.
however if she is not hot, or u just dont buy chiks drinks full stop, then MVplayer's replies were hectic.
jettiger
New Member
I only spent $1 on her."I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jiveturkey
Don Juan
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u: ****dont say anything to her, just go buy 2 beers and walk off..drink em both or give one to a buddy***
Me: (turn it around) "What? You want to buy me a drink and fill me up, alright? And then you'll get me so messed up, I will probably end up coming home with YOU?"
Then tell her what you'd like to drink and carry on convo.
kiko
Don Juan
Me: Ill think about that, I'll tell you in the morning when your cooking me breakfast. I like my eggs runny.
you :" is that the best pick up line you can come up with?, I'm not that easy"
or
you:" you are trying to pick me up, shouldn't YOU buy me a drink?"
or
you: " I know what you are doing, you are trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me!! I'm not "That" easy "
or
you: "order two drink and right before the bartender brings the beer to you, just said "I saw a friend over there, I'll be right back" and walk away and talk to someone and never come back, she will either have to wait for you to return or have to pay for both because the bartender is waiting, and we all know that would be rude if she don't pay, don't we
when she walk over with your beer just take it as if nothing had happen and said thanksandari
Don Juan
andari----------------sure meet me at my place in an hour
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
andari
Don Juan
thats hot. she might be mad that you just ignored her but that is a good way around it. in DC we call that "flipping it"
dude just flipped it on her.
Brother_Rapp
Banned
Me: You ain't gave me any money to buy you a drink with.
Her: What you mean?
Me: If you gave me $100 and I went out and spent it on another woman, how would you feel about it? You'd be pissed off. I'm like a bank. You put something in I can spend. Her you are trying to bound a check. You know that I can't let you do that.
HurricaneBilly
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Me: No,will you buy me one , get me all pissy drunk and take advantage of me, not respect me in the morning and then try it on with all of my friends?
Her: Ahhhhh No...
Me:Well there goes MY gameplan, laters...
:crackup:
Poindexter
Don Juan
'Why, are you underaged?'
brat-buster
Don Juan
depends......what's in it for me?
or try this at a strip club when a girl ask's you if you want a dance.
Her: would you like a lap dance?
me: hummmm......it depends.
herr: on what?
me: How much money do you have to spend?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.