"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Reply for "Will you buy me a drink?"
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
dollashort
Don Juan
chick: can u buy me a drink
me: yeah but hey whats in it for me?
chick: watever answer
me: i want a kiss, not a peck on the lips, some tongue.
if she dus tongue kiss me, i would buy her a drink, wynot. when a chick asks you to buy her a drink, its a great opportunity.
however if she is not hot, or u just dont buy chiks drinks full stop, then MVplayer's replies were hectic.
jettiger
New Member
I only spent $1 on her."The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
jiveturkey
Don Juan
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u: ****dont say anything to her, just go buy 2 beers and walk off..drink em both or give one to a buddy***
Me: (turn it around) "What? You want to buy me a drink and fill me up, alright? And then you'll get me so messed up, I will probably end up coming home with YOU?"
Then tell her what you'd like to drink and carry on convo.
kiko
Don Juan
Me: Ill think about that, I'll tell you in the morning when your cooking me breakfast. I like my eggs runny.
you :" is that the best pick up line you can come up with?, I'm not that easy"
or
you:" you are trying to pick me up, shouldn't YOU buy me a drink?"
or
you: " I know what you are doing, you are trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me!! I'm not "That" easy "
or
you: "order two drink and right before the bartender brings the beer to you, just said "I saw a friend over there, I'll be right back" and walk away and talk to someone and never come back, she will either have to wait for you to return or have to pay for both because the bartender is waiting, and we all know that would be rude if she don't pay, don't we
when she walk over with your beer just take it as if nothing had happen and said thanksandari
Don Juan
andari----------------sure meet me at my place in an hour
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
andari
Don Juan
thats hot. she might be mad that you just ignored her but that is a good way around it. in DC we call that "flipping it"
dude just flipped it on her.
Brother_Rapp
Banned
Me: You ain't gave me any money to buy you a drink with.
Her: What you mean?
Me: If you gave me $100 and I went out and spent it on another woman, how would you feel about it? You'd be pissed off. I'm like a bank. You put something in I can spend. Her you are trying to bound a check. You know that I can't let you do that.
HurricaneBilly
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Me: No,will you buy me one , get me all pissy drunk and take advantage of me, not respect me in the morning and then try it on with all of my friends?
Her: Ahhhhh No...
Me:Well there goes MY gameplan, laters...
:crackup:
Poindexter
Don Juan
'Why, are you underaged?'
brat-buster
Don Juan
depends......what's in it for me?
or try this at a strip club when a girl ask's you if you want a dance.
Her: would you like a lap dance?
me: hummmm......it depends.
herr: on what?
me: How much money do you have to spend?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.