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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Robert28

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I've seen enough guys buy women drinks, then the women walk back to their pack of hyenas laughing about getting yet another gullible guy. Men spend way more at bars than women, and the bars know that some sucker will be buying shots and such for the girls. And girls can have zero money in their purse and still walk out drunk with their friends.
You won’t find them conning me. If one approached me about buying her a drink I’d just say “no now get away from me before I yell sexual harassment, creep!”
 

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Women want equal rights until the check comes, it's like yeah ohhhhkay!!!!
I can identify with this. I have bought women who had higher salaries than I had at the time drinks on dates. I don't that happened in a regular bar pickup situation since I have bought way more drinks on dates than standard pickup. I maintain buying drinks for women at the bar during pickup died in the 2000s.
 

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Girls never ask me to buy them a drink. I don't know if this is a thing. I frequently ask them to buy me a drink.
 

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Wow. How difficult life is for women. Imagine that, having to worry about whether to accept free drinks every time you go out at night?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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Most certainly. Bartender, I am buying her a whiskey sour, she's buying me a rum and coke. Easy and you'll get some points on this for actually having a back bone. Used it plenty of times.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I’ve always said “I don’t buy drinks for girls in bars, you can buy ME one” which kept me from being a sucker but Ive never then taken the girl home. Better might be launching into
some teasing routine, maybe by getting her a water or a club soda.
I do buy rounds of drinks for the friends I’m with…including the girls. It’s a nice social bonding move and shows you’re not just broke or cheap. If I were deep in set I’d include the girl or girls in the round Im
buying for me and my friends.
 

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Last Saturday I went out for a works leaving party. I felt old. I think most of the guys and girls out were half my age. I don’t go out drinking much. Probably been out 5 times in the last 3 years.

I added that info so you guys know I’m no expert at this but here is what I did.

I chatted to a girl a few times watched her dance, she stuck her tongue out at me ( young chick thing?) I went to the bar to order and she leaned into me and said ‘ why don’t you buy me a drink?’

I replied ‘what are you drinking?’

She says ‘ rhubarb gin and tonic’

so I ask her ‘ that’s different! Is it really nice?’

she says ‘ yes it’s gorgeous’

So I order a rhubarb gin and tonic. Bartender makes it girl is hanging close but still kind of dancing with her friends. I lift up the ****tail and she slides towards me with her hand out, I raise the glass and down that delicious drink in one ( it really was delicious)

she got angry then she laughed then she got angry again. Then She more or less melted to my side for the rest of the night. Her friends thought it was hilarious ( all except the short haired angry looking one…)

I confess I did get her a drink later on but by that time I was already straining in my pants.
 

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This is an old theead.

Anyway I don’t think it’s a thing anymore. But if a girl asked me that. I would reply:

“What do I get out of it?”
 

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