You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Whatever works for you. No hate.I would rather have her than these petite, anorexic lookin b!tches you guys are on here ogling over.
If you compare her to these twigs being pictured on this thread, I guess she is huge.
But if you compare her to actual huge BBW's, then you will find that she is just on the thick side
And I'll take her.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She's up there.
I don't know, I don't even know who she is. But her body is easily a ten and even with the makeup you can tell she has good bone structure and good hair.
Girl on the left is 9+ but the others are definitely not 10s.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If that statement was in reply to my post (which doesn't really matter, implants or not she's insanely hot), then here: https://www.instagram.com/hadelinemope/?hl=en
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
IMO cosmetic enhancements are required to be a 10.
Good for you. Everyone has their prefs.
Sure ya do, I remember the first time I had a beer too!
has tranny bone structure, though i do think women with jawlines like that can look hot in a weird way, might be the novelty factor
easily a 10 face but we need to see body
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
yeah this is 21 pages of personal opinions and counting...
Need to see butt/hips too but looks good so far
Women don't really know how to be feminine and understated anymore. Always ridiculously weird and unnatural poses with clown yoga pants that hide their gut and make their ass look bigger. I do think women look better in good lingerie than fully naked though.
Sure but attraction informs how you view their personality and mind. Physical attraction is always first. No guy is interested in an ugly girl with a gifted mind (intimately that is).
Bro tiktok? Any girl that posts on that platform cannot be a 10. But she's obviously very close to a 10 otherwise.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
