Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Whatever works for you. No hate.I would rather have her than these petite, anorexic lookin b!tches you guys are on here ogling over.
If you compare her to these twigs being pictured on this thread, I guess she is huge.
But if you compare her to actual huge BBW's, then you will find that she is just on the thick side
And I'll take her.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She's up there.
I don't know, I don't even know who she is. But her body is easily a ten and even with the makeup you can tell she has good bone structure and good hair.
Girl on the left is 9+ but the others are definitely not 10s.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If that statement was in reply to my post (which doesn't really matter, implants or not she's insanely hot), then here: https://www.instagram.com/hadelinemope/?hl=en
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
IMO cosmetic enhancements are required to be a 10.
Good for you. Everyone has their prefs.
Sure ya do, I remember the first time I had a beer too!
has tranny bone structure, though i do think women with jawlines like that can look hot in a weird way, might be the novelty factor
easily a 10 face but we need to see body
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
yeah this is 21 pages of personal opinions and counting...
Need to see butt/hips too but looks good so far
Women don't really know how to be feminine and understated anymore. Always ridiculously weird and unnatural poses with clown yoga pants that hide their gut and make their ass look bigger. I do think women look better in good lingerie than fully naked though.
Sure but attraction informs how you view their personality and mind. Physical attraction is always first. No guy is interested in an ugly girl with a gifted mind (intimately that is).
Bro tiktok? Any girl that posts on that platform cannot be a 10. But she's obviously very close to a 10 otherwise.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
