"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would rather have her than these petite, anorexic lookin b!tches you guys are on here ogling over.

If you compare her to these twigs being pictured on this thread, I guess she is huge.

But if you compare her to actual huge BBW's, then you will find that she is just on the thick side :cool:

And I'll take her.
Whatever works for you. No hate.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is the lady from the Safelite commercial. I post this woman not because I think she's a 10, but just to point something out. I'm sure she's too old for 90% of the guys here anyway. Anyway, she has a feature that I find interesting. Where the eye openings are flat on the bottom, with an arc on the top. As opposed to a more regular oval. I think it's a cute look.



 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would barely notice her on the street. She doesn't stand out and again, she is fat, she is already too old. I wouldn't go on a date with her.

I like models, tall skinny, with beautiful face, Slavic ideally. Just look at the girl that I posted on the previous page.
Good for you. Everyone has their prefs.
 

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I would barely notice her on the street. She doesn't stand out and again, she is fat, she is already too old. I wouldn't go on a date with her.

I like models, tall skinny, with beautiful face, Slavic ideally. Just look at the girl that I posted on the previous page.
Sure ya do, I remember the first time I had a beer too!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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See, that's why it's useless to show what you consider an attractive woman. It may be interesting from an anthropological perspective, but I don't select attractive people on their bone structure, I'm more interested in the mind behind the bone.
yeah this is 21 pages of personal opinions and counting...

it's like the guy who gets a gf and asks his buddy "whattya think, do you think she's hot?"
 

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I’ve always found this thread and threads like it quite interesting, given I usually do not agree with most men’s ratings on physical attractiveness.

As the years drag on I have, however I’ve noticed a trend which is that “fakeness” is being more and more prized by younger men. Tons of makeup, fake eyelashes, impossibly done up hair, breast implants, Botox, filler, collagen, colored contacts, ridiculous clothing and so on.

Give me a girl straight out of the shower, air dried hair, a white tshirt, jeans and tennis shoes any day, or just in a towel.

Natural beauty over everything.
 

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@FlexpertHamilton you're a man of good taste, I'll be happy to oblige...

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Need to see butt/hips too but looks good so far

Give me a girl straight out of the shower, air dried hair, a white tshirt, jeans and tennis shoes any day, or just in a towel.
Women don't really know how to be feminine and understated anymore. Always ridiculously weird and unnatural poses with clown yoga pants that hide their gut and make their ass look bigger. I do think women look better in good lingerie than fully naked though.

See, that's why it's useless to show what you consider an attractive woman. It may be interesting from an anthropological perspective, but I don't select attractive people on their bone structure, I'm more interested in the mind behind the bone.
Sure but attraction informs how you view their personality and mind. Physical attraction is always first. No guy is interested in an ugly girl with a gifted mind (intimately that is).

I can become way more attracted to "mid" girls if they have a good personality but that doesn't mean I find them more physically attractive than an actual 10. This thread is really about what you consider "beautiful" or "sexy" in terms of sheer looks.

Bro tiktok? Any girl that posts on that platform cannot be a 10. But she's obviously very close to a 10 otherwise.
 
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This isn't the best pic of her (its a screenshot) but here's Jennifer Connelly on a hobby horse circa 1991

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In this music vid, (A Flock Of Seagulls) she is absolute fire

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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