backbreaker
Master Don Juan
also, every guy here would **** her brains out if she threw herself at you. Well not every guy, but most of you taking ****
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
pic of me and my girl
- Thread starter jlr12584
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
well i thank everyone for the comments, both good and bad. i asked for honesty and i got it. im not upset, everyone is entitled to his own opinion. and yes, i love her and want to be with her despite what anyone else would think. this wasnt meant to help make up my mind if i should stay with her, just to feed a simple curiosity. so thanks again.
mroriginal
Banned
you two make a goodlooking couple.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
I'm already in great shape, smartass.
She is not.
And just as a reminder, the original poster asked for comments on her looks. What the hell else did you people expect?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
I think you should print this thread out and show her.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
WHY?
mroriginal
Banned
WTF?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Well, I'd bang her.
Cute girl, nice face, big tits, but just a tad flabby.
Cute girl, nice face, big tits, but just a tad flabby.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Cool down big boy.
Sounds like you might be dating a chunky chunky...
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Haha no, not at the moment.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Banned
Seems cute enough to me, sure shes got a bit of weight but so do the majority of Western chicks so I'm not getting the uproar in this thread. She looks like she sucks a mean d!ck aswell yeah?
Did you just say you showed her this thread? lol silly goose.
Did you just say you showed her this thread? lol silly goose.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
aftershock
Master Don Juan
WHAT? I was only joking...yet the guy tells me he already showed her? Poor girls going to be a little depressed now.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.