"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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also, every guy here would **** her brains out if she threw herself at you. Well not every guy, but most of you taking ****
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well i thank everyone for the comments, both good and bad. i asked for honesty and i got it. im not upset, everyone is entitled to his own opinion. and yes, i love her and want to be with her despite what anyone else would think. this wasnt meant to help make up my mind if i should stay with her, just to feed a simple curiosity. so thanks again.
 
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Originally posted by AC/DC
Some of you need to learn how to respect women. She could lose 20 pounds? Why don't some of YOU lose 20 pounds? You're not losing weight typing on this forum. You're not burning calories. You're the kind of people that order a McDonalds meal and get DIET SODA: losers.
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I'm already in great shape, smartass.

She is not.

And just as a reminder, the original poster asked for comments on her looks. What the hell else did you people expect?
 
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She's an average cute girl!

Good luck!


Sayno'
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
 
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Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
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that has to be one of the worst moves in the history of dating.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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:rolleyes: :confused:
 
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Well, I'd bang her.

Cute girl, nice face, big tits, but just a tad flabby.
 
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Originally posted by AC/DC
Some of you need to learn how to respect women. She could lose 20 pounds? Why don't some of YOU lose 20 pounds? You're not losing weight typing on this forum. You're not burning calories. You're the kind of people that order a McDonalds meal and get DIET SODA: losers.

How are you gonna tell a guy his girlfriend is ugly? You're all here because you're single and have no game, right? I think she looks good. You're entitled to your opinion, you are not entitled to disrespect her.
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Cool down big boy.

Sounds like you might be dating a chunky chunky...
 
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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Cool down big boy.

Sounds like you might be dating a chunky chunky...
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Haha no, not at the moment.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by jlr12584
i dunno, tell me what u think about us? look good as a couple? is she cute? am i okay looking? no, im not gonna roll over and die if someone says something bad but im just curious as to what other ppl think



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I'll be honest, you are probably a better catch for a female than she is for a male. You have a good physique and look good. She is good looking but as others have said, needs to lose a little bit of weight.
 
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Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
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WHAT? I was only joking...yet the guy tells me he already showed her? Poor girls going to be a little depressed now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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