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Master Don Juan
also, every guy here would **** her brains out if she threw herself at you. Well not every guy, but most of you taking ****
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm already in great shape, smartass.Originally posted by AC/DC
Some of you need to learn how to respect women. She could lose 20 pounds? Why don't some of YOU lose 20 pounds? You're not losing weight typing on this forum. You're not burning calories. You're the kind of people that order a McDonalds meal and get DIET SODA: losers.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
WHY?Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Originally posted by AC/DC
Some of you need to learn how to respect women. She could lose 20 pounds? Why don't some of YOU lose 20 pounds? You're not losing weight typing on this forum. You're not burning calories. You're the kind of people that order a McDonalds meal and get DIET SODA: losers.
How are you gonna tell a guy his girlfriend is ugly? You're all here because you're single and have no game, right? I think she looks good. You're entitled to your opinion, you are not entitled to disrespect her.
Haha no, not at the moment.Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Cool down big boy.
Sounds like you might be dating a chunky chunky...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
I'll be honest, you are probably a better catch for a female than she is for a male. You have a good physique and look good. She is good looking but as others have said, needs to lose a little bit of weight.Originally posted by jlr12584
i dunno, tell me what u think about us? look good as a couple? is she cute? am i okay looking? no, im not gonna roll over and die if someone says something bad but im just curious as to what other ppl think
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WHAT? I was only joking...yet the guy tells me he already showed her? Poor girls going to be a little depressed now.Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.