Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That's not being direct at all, that's fluff talking and asking for a number. I just told you what to do.Konada said:Well I've tried going the direct route and so far hasn't been resulted in any number closes.
Recent one:
Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?
Advice on how to proceed
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yeah I know thats not direct. Its a different game I used for experimenting after I got blown off by several matches by being overly sexual in the first few texts.BackInTheGame78 said:That's not being direct at all, that's fluff talking and asking for a number. I just told you what to do.
Just do what I told you...there is a way that to do it that turns them on and a way that turns them off.Konada said:Yeah I know thats not direct. Its a different game I used for experimenting after I got blown off by several matches by being overly sexual in the first few texts.
The level of creepiness is always in direct proportion to how good looking they think you areLozboss said:If it works for you Back then go for it.
Having been on tinder being overtly sexual is seen as creepy.
But you need to tighten your game, that text chat is weak.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Is this real life?Konada said:Recent one:
Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?
Anyone?Konada said:Never came across one before though, need advice.
Me: So when are you free to try out that white wine?
HB7: Hahaha when are you free. You seem like the busy one.
Me: Thurs/sat evening
<no response>
Wait for her to reply or follow up with something in 1-2 days time?
You already got solid advice and refused to listen, why do you keep asking for more?Konada said:Anyone?