"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need Text game advice for Tinder

Konada

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Just installed Tinder today, had some fun fvcking around with some bishes but all in all I can't seem to hold a convo for long. If anyone is willing to help me PM me so I can show you the screenshots for critique.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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They are getting 100s of messages per day and you're just another c0ck to them
 
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I'd attack sexually...say something like she looks like "Trouble", then when she respondssgo by what she says...if she agrees say something like "So you are telling me I am going to have to punish you for being naughty on the first date?" If she says no she isn't then say "Well good, I didn't want to have to punish you for being naughty on the first date"

Then when they respond ask them "so are you going to willingly submit to the punishment?"

Then just ramp up the sexting from there and get her out or over to your place.

Knowing how to turn them on via text will set you apart from 95% of the guys texting her lame sh!t all day long...
 
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Well I've tried going the direct route and so far hasn't been resulted in any number closes.

Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?

Advice on how to proceed
 
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Konada said:
Well I've tried going the direct route and so far hasn't been resulted in any number closes.

Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?

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That's not being direct at all, that's fluff talking and asking for a number. I just told you what to do.

Sometimes having some fun=I am here to get railed and am DTF.

Yet you are more interested in her sleep schedule apparently.

And don't ask for a number tell them to give you their number.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BackInTheGame78 said:
That's not being direct at all, that's fluff talking and asking for a number. I just told you what to do.
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Yeah I know thats not direct. Its a different game I used for experimenting after I got blown off by several matches by being overly sexual in the first few texts.
 
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Yeah I know thats not direct. Its a different game I used for experimenting after I got blown off by several matches by being overly sexual in the first few texts.
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Just do what I told you...there is a way that to do it that turns them on and a way that turns them off.
 
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If it works for you Back then go for it.

Having been on tinder being overtly sexual is seen as creepy.

But you need to tighten your game, that text chat is weak.
 
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Managed to number close 4 in the 2 days I started the app.

Never came across one before though, need advice.

Me: So when are you free to try out that white wine?
HB7: Hahaha when are you free. You seem like the busy one.
Me: Thurs/sat evening
<no response>

Wait for her to reply or follow up with something in 1-2 days time?
 
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Lozboss said:
If it works for you Back then go for it.

Having been on tinder being overtly sexual is seen as creepy.

But you need to tighten your game, that text chat is weak.
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The level of creepiness is always in direct proportion to how good looking they think you are
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Konada said:
Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?
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Is this real life?
 
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Konada said:
Never came across one before though, need advice.

Me: So when are you free to try out that white wine?
HB7: Hahaha when are you free. You seem like the busy one.
Me: Thurs/sat evening
<no response>

Wait for her to reply or follow up with something in 1-2 days time?
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Anyone?
 
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Konada said:
Anyone?
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You already got solid advice and refused to listen, why do you keep asking for more?
 
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