"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need Text game advice for Tinder

Konada

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Just installed Tinder today, had some fun fvcking around with some bishes but all in all I can't seem to hold a convo for long. If anyone is willing to help me PM me so I can show you the screenshots for critique.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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They are getting 100s of messages per day and you're just another c0ck to them
 

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I'd attack sexually...say something like she looks like "Trouble", then when she respondssgo by what she says...if she agrees say something like "So you are telling me I am going to have to punish you for being naughty on the first date?" If she says no she isn't then say "Well good, I didn't want to have to punish you for being naughty on the first date"

Then when they respond ask them "so are you going to willingly submit to the punishment?"

Then just ramp up the sexting from there and get her out or over to your place.

Knowing how to turn them on via text will set you apart from 95% of the guys texting her lame sh!t all day long...
 

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Well I've tried going the direct route and so far hasn't been resulted in any number closes.

Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?

Advice on how to proceed
 

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Konada said:
Well I've tried going the direct route and so far hasn't been resulted in any number closes.

Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?

Advice on how to proceed
That's not being direct at all, that's fluff talking and asking for a number. I just told you what to do.

Sometimes having some fun=I am here to get railed and am DTF.

Yet you are more interested in her sleep schedule apparently.

And don't ask for a number tell them to give you their number.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BackInTheGame78 said:
That's not being direct at all, that's fluff talking and asking for a number. I just told you what to do.
Yeah I know thats not direct. Its a different game I used for experimenting after I got blown off by several matches by being overly sexual in the first few texts.
 

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Konada said:
Yeah I know thats not direct. Its a different game I used for experimenting after I got blown off by several matches by being overly sexual in the first few texts.
Just do what I told you...there is a way that to do it that turns them on and a way that turns them off.
 

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If it works for you Back then go for it.

Having been on tinder being overtly sexual is seen as creepy.

But you need to tighten your game, that text chat is weak.
 

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Managed to number close 4 in the 2 days I started the app.

Never came across one before though, need advice.

Me: So when are you free to try out that white wine?
HB7: Hahaha when are you free. You seem like the busy one.
Me: Thurs/sat evening
<no response>

Wait for her to reply or follow up with something in 1-2 days time?
 

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Lozboss said:
If it works for you Back then go for it.

Having been on tinder being overtly sexual is seen as creepy.

But you need to tighten your game, that text chat is weak.
The level of creepiness is always in direct proportion to how good looking they think you are
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Konada said:
Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?
Is this real life?
 

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Konada said:
Never came across one before though, need advice.

Me: So when are you free to try out that white wine?
HB7: Hahaha when are you free. You seem like the busy one.
Me: Thurs/sat evening
<no response>

Wait for her to reply or follow up with something in 1-2 days time?
Anyone?
 

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Konada said:
You already got solid advice and refused to listen, why do you keep asking for more?
 
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