"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Need Text game advice for Tinder

Konada

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Just installed Tinder today, had some fun fvcking around with some bishes but all in all I can't seem to hold a convo for long. If anyone is willing to help me PM me so I can show you the screenshots for critique.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They are getting 100s of messages per day and you're just another c0ck to them
 

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I'd attack sexually...say something like she looks like "Trouble", then when she respondssgo by what she says...if she agrees say something like "So you are telling me I am going to have to punish you for being naughty on the first date?" If she says no she isn't then say "Well good, I didn't want to have to punish you for being naughty on the first date"

Then when they respond ask them "so are you going to willingly submit to the punishment?"

Then just ramp up the sexting from there and get her out or over to your place.

Knowing how to turn them on via text will set you apart from 95% of the guys texting her lame sh!t all day long...
 

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Well I've tried going the direct route and so far hasn't been resulted in any number closes.

Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?

Advice on how to proceed
 

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Konada said:
Well I've tried going the direct route and so far hasn't been resulted in any number closes.

Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?

Advice on how to proceed
That's not being direct at all, that's fluff talking and asking for a number. I just told you what to do.

Sometimes having some fun=I am here to get railed and am DTF.

Yet you are more interested in her sleep schedule apparently.

And don't ask for a number tell them to give you their number.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BackInTheGame78 said:
That's not being direct at all, that's fluff talking and asking for a number. I just told you what to do.
Yeah I know thats not direct. Its a different game I used for experimenting after I got blown off by several matches by being overly sexual in the first few texts.
 

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Konada said:
Yeah I know thats not direct. Its a different game I used for experimenting after I got blown off by several matches by being overly sexual in the first few texts.
Just do what I told you...there is a way that to do it that turns them on and a way that turns them off.
 

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If it works for you Back then go for it.

Having been on tinder being overtly sexual is seen as creepy.

But you need to tighten your game, that text chat is weak.
 

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Managed to number close 4 in the 2 days I started the app.

Never came across one before though, need advice.

Me: So when are you free to try out that white wine?
HB7: Hahaha when are you free. You seem like the busy one.
Me: Thurs/sat evening
<no response>

Wait for her to reply or follow up with something in 1-2 days time?
 

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Lozboss said:
If it works for you Back then go for it.

Having been on tinder being overtly sexual is seen as creepy.

But you need to tighten your game, that text chat is weak.
The level of creepiness is always in direct proportion to how good looking they think you are
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Konada said:
Recent one:

Me: Hey Konada here. Nice to meet you
HB8: Hey! Why are you up so early on a Sunday? I guess im gg to slp now
Me: Can't sleep. What abot you sleepyhead?
HB8: Omg you haven't slept since yesterday? <insert her sleeping schedule here>
Me: Lol so what else do you do other than sleep?
HB8: Hey just woke up. I sleep alot during the weekends cos I have school early on the weekdays. Nothing much other than work, school and sometimes having fun.
Me: Wow seems like you have a rather exciting life :p
HB8: Haha I just have a normal school life. Wbu?
Me: Well why not you give me your number so I can tell you over text
<1hour later>
HB8: Hahaha im outside
<2 hours later>
HB8: Im back home hahaha
<2 hours later>
HB8: Hey i know this is a dumb question but do you know xxx?
Is this real life?
 

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Konada said:
Never came across one before though, need advice.

Me: So when are you free to try out that white wine?
HB7: Hahaha when are you free. You seem like the busy one.
Me: Thurs/sat evening
<no response>

Wait for her to reply or follow up with something in 1-2 days time?
Anyone?
 

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Konada said:
You already got solid advice and refused to listen, why do you keep asking for more?
 
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