"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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losing fat whilst gaining muscle?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whoami

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enkai

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No...Pretty much anyone can do it, read up on poliquin he uses a variety of good fats, such as fish oil, flaxseed oil, udos oils on the people he trains and this makes them loose fat while gaining mass.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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payaya

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i find my percentage of fat has dropped but in turn im getting smaller.
 

Dubs

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yea its definatley possible and i am doing it as we speak

i am 6ft and was at 200lbs.

i have since dropped to 180

i used to bench about 130 even when i weighed 200

now at 180 i am rep'in 205lbs.

it requires a diet with a lot of small meals
also, it is a high protein low fat diet
with lots of foods like tuna
also almost all the carbs in my diet are complicated carbs. such as vegies and whole wheat breads.

-Dubs

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sonick182

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Can't you do this if you do high weight/low reps on the parts you wanan gain muscle on, and low weight/high reps on the part you wanna tone?
 

enkai

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no you can't because central nervous system will get burned out, do either one or other, but low weight, high reps wont do anything but fatigue out the muscle, and you can't really sculpt or shape a muscle, its genetically predeterimained...you can just loose bodyfat to show it more
 

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Originally posted by enkai
no you can't because central nervous system will get burned out, do either one or other,

yes when you want to tone your muscles do all of them

but low weight, high reps wont do anything but fatigue out the muscle,

this way helps you to build muscle

and you can't really sculpt or shape a muscle, its genetically predeterimained...you can just loose bodyfat to show it more
while higher reps does help lose some body fat you still can shape your muscles to a certain extent

-Dubs:mad:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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enkai

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that shaping you refer to is simply..you loosing fat from high energy expanduture from fatiguing the muscle...thus burning fat n stuff, so you say shape it, but you only loose fat while showing the muscles true shape...and low weight high reps doesn't have enough neurological impact on the muscle fibers to make them contract fully and stimulate growth
 
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