fragmentor
Senior Don Juan
possible?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
losing fat whilst gaining muscle?
- Thread starter fragmentor
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
enkai
Senior Don Juan
No...Pretty much anyone can do it, read up on poliquin he uses a variety of good fats, such as fish oil, flaxseed oil, udos oils on the people he trains and this makes them loose fat while gaining mass.
Soshyopathe
Master Don Juan
possible, but an exact science.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
yea its definatley possible and i am doing it as we speak
i am 6ft and was at 200lbs.
i have since dropped to 180
i used to bench about 130 even when i weighed 200
now at 180 i am rep'in 205lbs.
it requires a diet with a lot of small meals
also, it is a high protein low fat diet
with lots of foods like tuna
also almost all the carbs in my diet are complicated carbs. such as vegies and whole wheat breads.
-Dubs
i am 6ft and was at 200lbs.
i have since dropped to 180
i used to bench about 130 even when i weighed 200
now at 180 i am rep'in 205lbs.
it requires a diet with a lot of small meals
also, it is a high protein low fat diet
with lots of foods like tuna
also almost all the carbs in my diet are complicated carbs. such as vegies and whole wheat breads.
-Dubs
enkai
Senior Don Juan
no you can't because central nervous system will get burned out, do either one or other, but low weight, high reps wont do anything but fatigue out the muscle, and you can't really sculpt or shape a muscle, its genetically predeterimained...you can just loose bodyfat to show it more
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
enkai
Senior Don Juan
that shaping you refer to is simply..you loosing fat from high energy expanduture from fatiguing the muscle...thus burning fat n stuff, so you say shape it, but you only loose fat while showing the muscles true shape...and low weight high reps doesn't have enough neurological impact on the muscle fibers to make them contract fully and stimulate growth