Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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losing fat whilst gaining muscle?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whoami

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enkai

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No...Pretty much anyone can do it, read up on poliquin he uses a variety of good fats, such as fish oil, flaxseed oil, udos oils on the people he trains and this makes them loose fat while gaining mass.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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payaya

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i find my percentage of fat has dropped but in turn im getting smaller.
 

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yea its definatley possible and i am doing it as we speak

i am 6ft and was at 200lbs.

i have since dropped to 180

i used to bench about 130 even when i weighed 200

now at 180 i am rep'in 205lbs.

it requires a diet with a lot of small meals
also, it is a high protein low fat diet
with lots of foods like tuna
also almost all the carbs in my diet are complicated carbs. such as vegies and whole wheat breads.

-Dubs

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sonick182

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Can't you do this if you do high weight/low reps on the parts you wanan gain muscle on, and low weight/high reps on the part you wanna tone?
 

enkai

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no you can't because central nervous system will get burned out, do either one or other, but low weight, high reps wont do anything but fatigue out the muscle, and you can't really sculpt or shape a muscle, its genetically predeterimained...you can just loose bodyfat to show it more
 

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Originally posted by enkai
no you can't because central nervous system will get burned out, do either one or other,

yes when you want to tone your muscles do all of them

but low weight, high reps wont do anything but fatigue out the muscle,

this way helps you to build muscle

and you can't really sculpt or shape a muscle, its genetically predeterimained...you can just loose bodyfat to show it more
while higher reps does help lose some body fat you still can shape your muscles to a certain extent

-Dubs:mad:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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enkai

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that shaping you refer to is simply..you loosing fat from high energy expanduture from fatiguing the muscle...thus burning fat n stuff, so you say shape it, but you only loose fat while showing the muscles true shape...and low weight high reps doesn't have enough neurological impact on the muscle fibers to make them contract fully and stimulate growth
 
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