"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Fuglydude
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LostAndConfused
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. So far, so great!"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
is it true for arm definition U need to have abs?
thats what it said on this youtube video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bT8A7Vc-2SI&feature=related
Ken785
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so how long have you been working out? give us an example of what you eat everyday and what supplements you take...oneshot said:wow...nice guess...actually around 158lbs...
170cm
158lbs
body fat: will figure that out soon
motivation: lost a fight and got pissed:box: (not pissed anymore)
um... I started out at about...135lbs...get a trainer/someone experienced to teach you all the basics...do the stuff everyday and you're there
hmmm...my intention is not to put my body on display (althought that is basically what im doing
any of you got pics?
hmmm...started out with only pushups and pullups... if you'd call that working out.... been hitting the gym since June 2006Ken785 said:
Breakfast today: Sandwich w/ eggs and chicken, milk tea (wow, right?)
Lunch: Starbucks sandwich and 3 americanos, venti...
dinner: MOS burger...
The reason for these three pathetic meals is cause I was out of town, didn't have many opportunities to get the best food and haven't worked out for a couple of days...A nice diet I think would be a bunch of lean meat, maybe steak, eggs, beans, lots of salad/fruit... at least thats what Mommy makes a lot of the times.
And rice too...the chinese diet pwns all..........maybe not
I heard it said that the body's sort of like a race car...eat more small meals as opposed to fewer large meals--get some fuel in order to work out, but not too much as you wanna keep it light... and when you've burned up what you've consumed, you eat another small meal.
oh and i take about two spoonful of whey protein everyday.
haven't looked at that youtube yet, xilley but i will... but IMO--
Abs = working out but losing weight/fat which means you get better definition in the arms and other parts of the body...
interesting... i got bigger this year but throughout the year i lost 22 lbs--and since then-- the arms have got much better definition. and on better days, the shoulders and pecs have some nice veins-- have never seen them until i lost the weight.
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Haven't posted here in a while. But---
After 2 years of hardwork:
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/6443/n53556034326650463584dp3.jpg
I have finally actually "USED" my muscles!
http://img166.imageshack.us/img166/2773/n7350911725632798517sc6.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/272/n7350911725632788266cc3.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/566/n7350911725632808783hz1.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/7517/n53490052328372365053ds8.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n7350911725632839581gn6.jpg
http://img166.imageshack.us/img166/3637/n53490052328372385776tj4.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n735091172563287668ay0.jpg
That was our prom, by the way. When the chaperones came, I grabbed their asses and they enjoyed it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cry For Love
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LOL doesn't matter at all these are just 'stats' and 'numbers' which mean nothing. It's about wearing down the fibres and making them grow bigger. I think the OP has a nice physique given his age etc. and he has a nice shape to him as well.wolf116 said:
MM
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If he puts up pics of good upper body poses then what relevance is there in asking him what he squats? Better to ask him what he does for his chest or shoulders as there are what look good in the pics.wolf116 said:
MM
Just wondering if he is balanced. Heaps of guys just work their upper body and they just start to look retarded. I just had a feeling he neglects his lower body.Mad Manic said:
You need to make it look like you have good genetics, not like you pump your chest and arms every day. When you are balanced people don't know if you lift weights or it's just natural, and when it looks natural it is far more attractive.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.