"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Kiddy Muscles- Pics
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Fuglydude
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LostAndConfused
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. So far, so great!"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
is it true for arm definition U need to have abs?
thats what it said on this youtube video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bT8A7Vc-2SI&feature=related
Ken785
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so how long have you been working out? give us an example of what you eat everyday and what supplements you take...oneshot said:wow...nice guess...actually around 158lbs...
170cm
158lbs
body fat: will figure that out soon
motivation: lost a fight and got pissed:box: (not pissed anymore)
um... I started out at about...135lbs...get a trainer/someone experienced to teach you all the basics...do the stuff everyday and you're there
hmmm...my intention is not to put my body on display (althought that is basically what im doing
any of you got pics?
hmmm...started out with only pushups and pullups... if you'd call that working out.... been hitting the gym since June 2006Ken785 said:
Breakfast today: Sandwich w/ eggs and chicken, milk tea (wow, right?)
Lunch: Starbucks sandwich and 3 americanos, venti...
dinner: MOS burger...
The reason for these three pathetic meals is cause I was out of town, didn't have many opportunities to get the best food and haven't worked out for a couple of days...A nice diet I think would be a bunch of lean meat, maybe steak, eggs, beans, lots of salad/fruit... at least thats what Mommy makes a lot of the times.
And rice too...the chinese diet pwns all..........maybe not
I heard it said that the body's sort of like a race car...eat more small meals as opposed to fewer large meals--get some fuel in order to work out, but not too much as you wanna keep it light... and when you've burned up what you've consumed, you eat another small meal.
oh and i take about two spoonful of whey protein everyday.
haven't looked at that youtube yet, xilley but i will... but IMO--
Abs = working out but losing weight/fat which means you get better definition in the arms and other parts of the body...
interesting... i got bigger this year but throughout the year i lost 22 lbs--and since then-- the arms have got much better definition. and on better days, the shoulders and pecs have some nice veins-- have never seen them until i lost the weight.
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Haven't posted here in a while. But---
After 2 years of hardwork:
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/6443/n53556034326650463584dp3.jpg
I have finally actually "USED" my muscles!
http://img166.imageshack.us/img166/2773/n7350911725632798517sc6.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/272/n7350911725632788266cc3.jpg
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http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/7517/n53490052328372365053ds8.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n7350911725632839581gn6.jpg
http://img166.imageshack.us/img166/3637/n53490052328372385776tj4.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n735091172563287668ay0.jpg
That was our prom, by the way. When the chaperones came, I grabbed their asses and they enjoyed it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cry For Love
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LOL doesn't matter at all these are just 'stats' and 'numbers' which mean nothing. It's about wearing down the fibres and making them grow bigger. I think the OP has a nice physique given his age etc. and he has a nice shape to him as well.wolf116 said:
MM
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If he puts up pics of good upper body poses then what relevance is there in asking him what he squats? Better to ask him what he does for his chest or shoulders as there are what look good in the pics.wolf116 said:
MM
Just wondering if he is balanced. Heaps of guys just work their upper body and they just start to look retarded. I just had a feeling he neglects his lower body.Mad Manic said:
You need to make it look like you have good genetics, not like you pump your chest and arms every day. When you are balanced people don't know if you lift weights or it's just natural, and when it looks natural it is far more attractive.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.