"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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LostAndConfused
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. So far, so great!“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
is it true for arm definition U need to have abs?
thats what it said on this youtube video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bT8A7Vc-2SI&feature=related
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so how long have you been working out? give us an example of what you eat everyday and what supplements you take...oneshot said:wow...nice guess...actually around 158lbs...
170cm
158lbs
body fat: will figure that out soon
motivation: lost a fight and got pissed:box: (not pissed anymore)
um... I started out at about...135lbs...get a trainer/someone experienced to teach you all the basics...do the stuff everyday and you're there
hmmm...my intention is not to put my body on display (althought that is basically what im doing
any of you got pics?
hmmm...started out with only pushups and pullups... if you'd call that working out.... been hitting the gym since June 2006Ken785 said:
Breakfast today: Sandwich w/ eggs and chicken, milk tea (wow, right?)
Lunch: Starbucks sandwich and 3 americanos, venti...
dinner: MOS burger...
The reason for these three pathetic meals is cause I was out of town, didn't have many opportunities to get the best food and haven't worked out for a couple of days...A nice diet I think would be a bunch of lean meat, maybe steak, eggs, beans, lots of salad/fruit... at least thats what Mommy makes a lot of the times.
And rice too...the chinese diet pwns all..........maybe not
I heard it said that the body's sort of like a race car...eat more small meals as opposed to fewer large meals--get some fuel in order to work out, but not too much as you wanna keep it light... and when you've burned up what you've consumed, you eat another small meal.
oh and i take about two spoonful of whey protein everyday.
haven't looked at that youtube yet, xilley but i will... but IMO--
Abs = working out but losing weight/fat which means you get better definition in the arms and other parts of the body...
interesting... i got bigger this year but throughout the year i lost 22 lbs--and since then-- the arms have got much better definition. and on better days, the shoulders and pecs have some nice veins-- have never seen them until i lost the weight.
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Haven't posted here in a while. But---
After 2 years of hardwork:
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/6443/n53556034326650463584dp3.jpg
I have finally actually "USED" my muscles!
http://img166.imageshack.us/img166/2773/n7350911725632798517sc6.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/272/n7350911725632788266cc3.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/566/n7350911725632808783hz1.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/7517/n53490052328372365053ds8.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n7350911725632839581gn6.jpg
http://img166.imageshack.us/img166/3637/n53490052328372385776tj4.jpg
http://img210.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n735091172563287668ay0.jpg
That was our prom, by the way. When the chaperones came, I grabbed their asses and they enjoyed it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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LOL doesn't matter at all these are just 'stats' and 'numbers' which mean nothing. It's about wearing down the fibres and making them grow bigger. I think the OP has a nice physique given his age etc. and he has a nice shape to him as well.wolf116 said:
MM
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If he puts up pics of good upper body poses then what relevance is there in asking him what he squats? Better to ask him what he does for his chest or shoulders as there are what look good in the pics.wolf116 said:
MM
Just wondering if he is balanced. Heaps of guys just work their upper body and they just start to look retarded. I just had a feeling he neglects his lower body.Mad Manic said:
You need to make it look like you have good genetics, not like you pump your chest and arms every day. When you are balanced people don't know if you lift weights or it's just natural, and when it looks natural it is far more attractive.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.