"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you got Bait and Switched by your Dental Hygenist - would you have walked out or continued...

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CornbreadFed said:
I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
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In that Seinfeld episode, George asks Elaine to switch with her, and she doesn't want the male masseuse either. Ironically, if I remember the episode correctly, they go to the masseuse because they convince a dentist to write them a prescription for one, so that their insurance picks up the cost.

I sympathize with George in this case, I wouldn't want a male masseuse either. On occasion, women have asked me to come along to get a massage or pedicure, and I've never gone because I was afraid I'd get the one guy who works in there. It just sounds icky to me.

As for the hygienist, I can understand getting used to one hygienist. I've had the same one for as long as I can remember. If she wasn't in that day and someone else did the job I'd be fine with it though. I will say that is one job that I would NOT want to have, I can't imagine rooting around in people's mouths. More ick.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.
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It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.

That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.

Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
 
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CornbreadFed said:
I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
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When I did pedicures in the past, I only have got them done by women. The whole point is to get it done by the oppostie sex.

If the hygenist was a male, then I would have definitely rescheduled the appointment as likely a reflex reaction.

Having a lady that did not look sexy with me or that I was not attracted to is bad enough. But a male that would have triggered me to reschedule the appointment on the spot.

You don't visit escorts to deal with guys, so it's the same thing with hygenists. You are paying for a lady's personal attention on your mouth.
It's like a type of prostitution, but a more socially acceptable form. It becomes like a date.
 
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corrector said:
It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.

That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.

Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
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You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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