BackInTheGame78
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The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.You are condescending.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.You are condescending.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What lies are you telling yourself?The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.
That you actually are on this forum to be helpedWhat lies are you telling yourself?
Damn, this is too good of a burn to be ignored. I tip my hat to you sir.That you actually are on this forum to be helped
Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.Damn, this is too good of a burn to be ignored. I tip my hat to you sir.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
In that Seinfeld episode, George asks Elaine to switch with her, and she doesn't want the male masseuse either. Ironically, if I remember the episode correctly, they go to the masseuse because they convince a dentist to write them a prescription for one, so that their insurance picks up the cost.I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.
When I did pedicures in the past, I only have got them done by women. The whole point is to get it done by the oppostie sex.I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.
That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.
Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
So you dont like the thread therefore you start posting insults. I guess mods are above the law.You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Where is the insult? If the shoe fits wear it.So you dont like the thread therefore you start posting insults. I guess mods are above the law.
He just confirmed that he is not in this forum to get help, without actually saying it. SMH.Where is the insult? If the shoe fits wear it.