BackInTheGame78
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The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.You are condescending.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.You are condescending.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What lies are you telling yourself?The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.
That you actually are on this forum to be helpedWhat lies are you telling yourself?
Damn, this is too good of a burn to be ignored. I tip my hat to you sir.That you actually are on this forum to be helped
Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.Damn, this is too good of a burn to be ignored. I tip my hat to you sir.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
In that Seinfeld episode, George asks Elaine to switch with her, and she doesn't want the male masseuse either. Ironically, if I remember the episode correctly, they go to the masseuse because they convince a dentist to write them a prescription for one, so that their insurance picks up the cost.I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.
When I did pedicures in the past, I only have got them done by women. The whole point is to get it done by the oppostie sex.I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.
That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.
Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
So you dont like the thread therefore you start posting insults. I guess mods are above the law.You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Where is the insult? If the shoe fits wear it.So you dont like the thread therefore you start posting insults. I guess mods are above the law.
He just confirmed that he is not in this forum to get help, without actually saying it. SMH.Where is the insult? If the shoe fits wear it.