BackInTheGame78
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The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.You are condescending.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.You are condescending.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What lies are you telling yourself?The worst lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves.
That you actually are on this forum to be helpedWhat lies are you telling yourself?
Damn, this is too good of a burn to be ignored. I tip my hat to you sir.That you actually are on this forum to be helped
Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.Damn, this is too good of a burn to be ignored. I tip my hat to you sir.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
In that Seinfeld episode, George asks Elaine to switch with her, and she doesn't want the male masseuse either. Ironically, if I remember the episode correctly, they go to the masseuse because they convince a dentist to write them a prescription for one, so that their insurance picks up the cost.I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.
When I did pedicures in the past, I only have got them done by women. The whole point is to get it done by the oppostie sex.I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.
That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.
Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
So you dont like the thread therefore you start posting insults. I guess mods are above the law.You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Where is the insult? If the shoe fits wear it.So you dont like the thread therefore you start posting insults. I guess mods are above the law.
He just confirmed that he is not in this forum to get help, without actually saying it. SMH.Where is the insult? If the shoe fits wear it.