"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you got Bait and Switched by your Dental Hygenist - would you have walked out or continued...

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
In that Seinfeld episode, George asks Elaine to switch with her, and she doesn't want the male masseuse either. Ironically, if I remember the episode correctly, they go to the masseuse because they convince a dentist to write them a prescription for one, so that their insurance picks up the cost.

I sympathize with George in this case, I wouldn't want a male masseuse either. On occasion, women have asked me to come along to get a massage or pedicure, and I've never gone because I was afraid I'd get the one guy who works in there. It just sounds icky to me.

As for the hygienist, I can understand getting used to one hygienist. I've had the same one for as long as I can remember. If she wasn't in that day and someone else did the job I'd be fine with it though. I will say that is one job that I would NOT want to have, I can't imagine rooting around in people's mouths. More ick.
 

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Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.
It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.

That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.

Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
 

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I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
When I did pedicures in the past, I only have got them done by women. The whole point is to get it done by the oppostie sex.

If the hygenist was a male, then I would have definitely rescheduled the appointment as likely a reflex reaction.

Having a lady that did not look sexy with me or that I was not attracted to is bad enough. But a male that would have triggered me to reschedule the appointment on the spot.

You don't visit escorts to deal with guys, so it's the same thing with hygenists. You are paying for a lady's personal attention on your mouth.
It's like a type of prostitution, but a more socially acceptable form. It becomes like a date.
 

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It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.

That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.

Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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