"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you got Bait and Switched by your Dental Hygenist - would you have walked out or continued...

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
In that Seinfeld episode, George asks Elaine to switch with her, and she doesn't want the male masseuse either. Ironically, if I remember the episode correctly, they go to the masseuse because they convince a dentist to write them a prescription for one, so that their insurance picks up the cost.

I sympathize with George in this case, I wouldn't want a male masseuse either. On occasion, women have asked me to come along to get a massage or pedicure, and I've never gone because I was afraid I'd get the one guy who works in there. It just sounds icky to me.

As for the hygienist, I can understand getting used to one hygienist. I've had the same one for as long as I can remember. If she wasn't in that day and someone else did the job I'd be fine with it though. I will say that is one job that I would NOT want to have, I can't imagine rooting around in people's mouths. More ick.
 

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Wasn't meant as a burn, just an honest answer to his question.
It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.

That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.

Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
 

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I know women that wouldn't take a male masseuse or pedicure guy.
When I did pedicures in the past, I only have got them done by women. The whole point is to get it done by the oppostie sex.

If the hygenist was a male, then I would have definitely rescheduled the appointment as likely a reflex reaction.

Having a lady that did not look sexy with me or that I was not attracted to is bad enough. But a male that would have triggered me to reschedule the appointment on the spot.

You don't visit escorts to deal with guys, so it's the same thing with hygenists. You are paying for a lady's personal attention on your mouth.
It's like a type of prostitution, but a more socially acceptable form. It becomes like a date.
 

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It looks like everyone else thinks it is. You are trying to put me into some sort of caricature so people can make fun of me.

That's what that is about and your reply has been about to this thread.

Now that everyone has had their cheap-shot worthless laughs to feel better about themselves (ie like they would need to do that if they are doing so well with the ladies). Lets continue with the regular scheduled discussion of this thread.
You made yourself a caricature by starting this thread if we are being honest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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