DonGorgon
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i have seen dudes who are 3s with alot of money get girls who are 10sChrizZ said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I think that this is the root of our problems, guys..
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think it would be more enjoyable if you got a chick NOT because of money. Even if you manage to come in the chick, I would imagine it would feel kind of empty knowing that she ONLY likes you for money. There's not point in bettering yourself, if all it is is money. Just shut the site down.
F'ing negative.
F'ing negative.
DonGorgon
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which from of power is more powerful than moneyChrizZ said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Good point...ChrizZ said:
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Umm...thank god? Like we need more psychotic damaged goods in this world?Poonani Maker said:
Not always. Chicks like money fine, but you can't say that in 100% of the cases, a woman will leave a DJ who is not rich for a "3" who is rich and has no game. If we're taking it to extremes.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
However, if you want to find a submissive traditional chick, and you feel you deserve her, you will find her.
You get what you look for.
Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
You get what you look for.
Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
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I am a realist too and what you just said is the truth.ChrizZ said:
Yes I agree with this; lots of forms of power. Physical power, social power, financial power ... most definitely help in getting women. Rich men get laid, popular guys get laid, strong alpha guys get laid etc. I think what we can learn from this is find which area you are best at in terms of getting power and work on that.ChrizZ said:
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Like fame, power, social circle, funniness, the list goes on!ChrizZ said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Hi-5 to you!reset said:
In the instance that you are rich, don't flaunt it! Then you WILL end up with a golddigger. If she asks how much money you make, you can tell a lie if need be. I wouldn't tell exactly what I do and how much I make, f**k no!
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Now that I look at it again, if the club has more chicks than dudes, don't be surprised if you get asked to dance with a chick. If the club has more guys than girls, you better look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or else you'll get rejected more times than you need to be.JackPrescott said:
Who cares about what's statistically true? In a club like this I'd weigh up the competition then do exactly what they aren't doing.nismo-4 said:
There's ALWAYS a weak point if you care enough to lever it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.