"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think that this is the root of our problems, guys..

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon said:
i have seen dudes who are 3s with alot of money get girls who are 10s
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It's all about power. The more power you have, the higher your rating goes. Money isn't the only form of power though. There are plenty more...
 
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I think it would be more enjoyable if you got a chick NOT because of money. Even if you manage to come in the chick, I would imagine it would feel kind of empty knowing that she ONLY likes you for money. There's not point in bettering yourself, if all it is is money. Just shut the site down.

F'ing negative.
 
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DonGorgon said:
which from of power is more powerful than money
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none.

Money will always attract the biggest amount of hot chicks.

Money always wins, but there are way more hot chicks than millionaires out there...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Attraction. Learning to turn a woman on. Turning a woman on. You must have zero self-esteem dude.
 
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Attraction. Learning to turn a woman on. Turning a woman on. You must have zero self-esteem dude.
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I'm a realist.

Money always wins in the long run, no matter what.

However

Having game and working on yourself WILL get you laid with hot chicks, too. You just have to put in more effort...
 
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Poonani Maker said:
We are Not being infiltrated by an army. They haven't been raped and pillaged.
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Umm...thank god? Like we need more psychotic damaged goods in this world?
 
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Not always. Chicks like money fine, but you can't say that in 100% of the cases, a woman will leave a DJ who is not rich for a "3" who is rich and has no game. If we're taking it to extremes.

"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.

AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.

I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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However, if you want to find a submissive traditional chick, and you feel you deserve her, you will find her.

You get what you look for.

Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
 
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yeah good point. I'm more into subjective reality these days.
 
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ChrizZ said:
I'm a realist.

Money always wins in the long run, no matter what.

However

Having game and working on yourself WILL get you laid with hot chicks, too. You just have to put in more effort...
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I am a realist too and what you just said is the truth.
 
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ChrizZ said:
It's all about power. The more power you have, the higher your rating goes. Money isn't the only form of power though. There are plenty more...
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Yes I agree with this; lots of forms of power. Physical power, social power, financial power ... most definitely help in getting women. Rich men get laid, popular guys get laid, strong alpha guys get laid etc. I think what we can learn from this is find which area you are best at in terms of getting power and work on that.

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ChrizZ said:
It's all about power. The more power you have, the higher your rating goes. Money isn't the only form of power though. There are plenty more...
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Like fame, power, social circle, funniness, the list goes on!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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reset said:
Not always. Chicks like money fine, but you can't say that in 100% of the cases, a woman will leave a DJ who is not rich for a "3" who is rich and has no game. If we're taking it to extremes.

"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.

AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.

I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
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Hi-5 to you!
In the instance that you are rich, don't flaunt it! Then you WILL end up with a golddigger. If she asks how much money you make, you can tell a lie if need be. I wouldn't tell exactly what I do and how much I make, f**k no!
 
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JackPrescott said:
No moron, it is a RATIO thing. Have you learned nothing? Women will ask men to dance if the ratio is correct. Men will get rejected by women as long as there are plenty of men asking them, but reverse the scenario and the bit*ches learn a new attitude. Unless the guy looks like you, in which case they gag.
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Now that I look at it again, if the club has more chicks than dudes, don't be surprised if you get asked to dance with a chick. If the club has more guys than girls, you better look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or else you'll get rejected more times than you need to be.
 
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nismo-4 said:
Now that I look at it again, if the club has more chicks than dudes, don't be surprised if you get asked to dance with a chick. If the club has more guys than girls, you better look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or else you'll get rejected more times than you need to be.
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Who cares about what's statistically true? In a club like this I'd weigh up the competition then do exactly what they aren't doing.

There's ALWAYS a weak point if you care enough to lever it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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