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i have seen dudes who are 3s with alot of money get girls who are 10sChrizZ said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think that this is the root of our problems, guys..
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think it would be more enjoyable if you got a chick NOT because of money. Even if you manage to come in the chick, I would imagine it would feel kind of empty knowing that she ONLY likes you for money. There's not point in bettering yourself, if all it is is money. Just shut the site down.
F'ing negative.
F'ing negative.
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which from of power is more powerful than moneyChrizZ said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Good point...ChrizZ said:
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Umm...thank god? Like we need more psychotic damaged goods in this world?Poonani Maker said:
Not always. Chicks like money fine, but you can't say that in 100% of the cases, a woman will leave a DJ who is not rich for a "3" who is rich and has no game. If we're taking it to extremes.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
However, if you want to find a submissive traditional chick, and you feel you deserve her, you will find her.
You get what you look for.
Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
You get what you look for.
Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
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I am a realist too and what you just said is the truth.ChrizZ said:
Yes I agree with this; lots of forms of power. Physical power, social power, financial power ... most definitely help in getting women. Rich men get laid, popular guys get laid, strong alpha guys get laid etc. I think what we can learn from this is find which area you are best at in terms of getting power and work on that.ChrizZ said:
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Like fame, power, social circle, funniness, the list goes on!ChrizZ said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Hi-5 to you!reset said:
In the instance that you are rich, don't flaunt it! Then you WILL end up with a golddigger. If she asks how much money you make, you can tell a lie if need be. I wouldn't tell exactly what I do and how much I make, f**k no!
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Now that I look at it again, if the club has more chicks than dudes, don't be surprised if you get asked to dance with a chick. If the club has more guys than girls, you better look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or else you'll get rejected more times than you need to be.JackPrescott said:
Who cares about what's statistically true? In a club like this I'd weigh up the competition then do exactly what they aren't doing.nismo-4 said:
There's ALWAYS a weak point if you care enough to lever it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.