DonGorgon
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i have seen dudes who are 3s with alot of money get girls who are 10sChrizZ said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think that this is the root of our problems, guys..
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I think it would be more enjoyable if you got a chick NOT because of money. Even if you manage to come in the chick, I would imagine it would feel kind of empty knowing that she ONLY likes you for money. There's not point in bettering yourself, if all it is is money. Just shut the site down.
F'ing negative.
F'ing negative.
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which from of power is more powerful than moneyChrizZ said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Good point...ChrizZ said:
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Umm...thank god? Like we need more psychotic damaged goods in this world?Poonani Maker said:
Not always. Chicks like money fine, but you can't say that in 100% of the cases, a woman will leave a DJ who is not rich for a "3" who is rich and has no game. If we're taking it to extremes.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
However, if you want to find a submissive traditional chick, and you feel you deserve her, you will find her.
You get what you look for.
Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
You get what you look for.
Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
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I am a realist too and what you just said is the truth.ChrizZ said:
Yes I agree with this; lots of forms of power. Physical power, social power, financial power ... most definitely help in getting women. Rich men get laid, popular guys get laid, strong alpha guys get laid etc. I think what we can learn from this is find which area you are best at in terms of getting power and work on that.ChrizZ said:
MM
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Like fame, power, social circle, funniness, the list goes on!ChrizZ said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Hi-5 to you!reset said:
In the instance that you are rich, don't flaunt it! Then you WILL end up with a golddigger. If she asks how much money you make, you can tell a lie if need be. I wouldn't tell exactly what I do and how much I make, f**k no!
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Now that I look at it again, if the club has more chicks than dudes, don't be surprised if you get asked to dance with a chick. If the club has more guys than girls, you better look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or else you'll get rejected more times than you need to be.JackPrescott said:
Who cares about what's statistically true? In a club like this I'd weigh up the competition then do exactly what they aren't doing.nismo-4 said:
There's ALWAYS a weak point if you care enough to lever it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.