DonGorgon
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i have seen dudes who are 3s with alot of money get girls who are 10sChrizZ said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I think that this is the root of our problems, guys..
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think it would be more enjoyable if you got a chick NOT because of money. Even if you manage to come in the chick, I would imagine it would feel kind of empty knowing that she ONLY likes you for money. There's not point in bettering yourself, if all it is is money. Just shut the site down.
F'ing negative.
F'ing negative.
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which from of power is more powerful than moneyChrizZ said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Good point...ChrizZ said:
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Umm...thank god? Like we need more psychotic damaged goods in this world?Poonani Maker said:
Not always. Chicks like money fine, but you can't say that in 100% of the cases, a woman will leave a DJ who is not rich for a "3" who is rich and has no game. If we're taking it to extremes.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
However, if you want to find a submissive traditional chick, and you feel you deserve her, you will find her.
You get what you look for.
Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
You get what you look for.
Statistics are for those who worship the great Objective Reality. Those of us who stick the middle finger to objectivity will make reality how we desire it. If we want to sleep forever and dream the life we desire... we can.
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I am a realist too and what you just said is the truth.ChrizZ said:
Yes I agree with this; lots of forms of power. Physical power, social power, financial power ... most definitely help in getting women. Rich men get laid, popular guys get laid, strong alpha guys get laid etc. I think what we can learn from this is find which area you are best at in terms of getting power and work on that.ChrizZ said:
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Like fame, power, social circle, funniness, the list goes on!ChrizZ said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Hi-5 to you!reset said:
In the instance that you are rich, don't flaunt it! Then you WILL end up with a golddigger. If she asks how much money you make, you can tell a lie if need be. I wouldn't tell exactly what I do and how much I make, f**k no!
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Now that I look at it again, if the club has more chicks than dudes, don't be surprised if you get asked to dance with a chick. If the club has more guys than girls, you better look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or else you'll get rejected more times than you need to be.JackPrescott said:
Who cares about what's statistically true? In a club like this I'd weigh up the competition then do exactly what they aren't doing.nismo-4 said:
There's ALWAYS a weak point if you care enough to lever it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.