DonGorgon
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i have seen dudes who are 3s with alot of money get girls who are 10sChrizZ said:In order to get a 10 you have to be a 10 yourself.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
i have seen dudes who are 3s with alot of money get girls who are 10sChrizZ said:In order to get a 10 you have to be a 10 yourself.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's all about power. The more power you have, the higher your rating goes. Money isn't the only form of power though. There are plenty more...DonGorgon said:i have seen dudes who are 3s with alot of money get girls who are 10s
which from of power is more powerful than moneyChrizZ said:It's all about power. The more power you have, the higher your rating goes. Money isn't the only form of power though. There are plenty more...
none.DonGorgon said:which from of power is more powerful than money
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Good point...ChrizZ said:none.
Money will always attract the biggest amount of hot chicks.
Money always wins, but there are way more hot chicks than millionaires out there...
I'm a realist.reset said:Attraction. Learning to turn a woman on. Turning a woman on. You must have zero self-esteem dude.
Umm...thank god? Like we need more psychotic damaged goods in this world?Poonani Maker said:We are Not being infiltrated by an army. They haven't been raped and pillaged.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I am a realist too and what you just said is the truth.ChrizZ said:I'm a realist.
Money always wins in the long run, no matter what.
However
Having game and working on yourself WILL get you laid with hot chicks, too. You just have to put in more effort...
Yes I agree with this; lots of forms of power. Physical power, social power, financial power ... most definitely help in getting women. Rich men get laid, popular guys get laid, strong alpha guys get laid etc. I think what we can learn from this is find which area you are best at in terms of getting power and work on that.ChrizZ said:It's all about power. The more power you have, the higher your rating goes. Money isn't the only form of power though. There are plenty more...
Like fame, power, social circle, funniness, the list goes on!ChrizZ said:It's all about power. The more power you have, the higher your rating goes. Money isn't the only form of power though. There are plenty more...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hi-5 to you!reset said:Not always. Chicks like money fine, but you can't say that in 100% of the cases, a woman will leave a DJ who is not rich for a "3" who is rich and has no game. If we're taking it to extremes.
"I'm not rich" and "I'm not good looking enough" are EXCUSES. Women are turned on by men who act like men, women do not think logically, they act on their emotions, and if you can push those buttons, your income is irrelevant.
AND, in the end, maybe the rich guys "get" some of the hotties. So what. They attract gold diggers who will take all their money and divorce them. What a deal. That's my point.
I agree with what you say though. Game is game. The last thing men should be doing is finding reasons why they can't hook up. You're gonna game some hot chick, she's going to get all hot and bothered, you're about to stick it in and then she says "wait--how much money do you make?" lol.
Now that I look at it again, if the club has more chicks than dudes, don't be surprised if you get asked to dance with a chick. If the club has more guys than girls, you better look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or else you'll get rejected more times than you need to be.JackPrescott said:No moron, it is a RATIO thing. Have you learned nothing? Women will ask men to dance if the ratio is correct. Men will get rejected by women as long as there are plenty of men asking them, but reverse the scenario and the bit*ches learn a new attitude. Unless the guy looks like you, in which case they gag.
Who cares about what's statistically true? In a club like this I'd weigh up the competition then do exactly what they aren't doing.nismo-4 said:Now that I look at it again, if the club has more chicks than dudes, don't be surprised if you get asked to dance with a chick. If the club has more guys than girls, you better look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or else you'll get rejected more times than you need to be.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.