"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How to get a girl to loose some weight?
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The only thing I can think of would be taking her out to do more active things. But unless you spend a lot of time with her and do this often, shes gotta get on board and try to lose the weight herself. I don't see how you can really get her to do that... safely.
Inception?
Crissco
Master Don Juan
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/144b_dating_advice.html
Next time i see her im going to get into the topic of fitness, then say I lovvvveee girls who know how to keep them self in shape and go to the gym.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Exactly why im not going to tell he straight up, if it comes down to it I will. Im probably going to mention something about fitness, and how I love girls who work out...its very sexy...etcPDubb75 said:
Thanks for the advice bro
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Exactly why im not going to tell he straight up, if it comes down to it I will. Im probably going to mention something about fitness, and how I love girls who work out...its very sexy...etcPDubb75 said:
Thanks for the advice bro
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Im going to say "I love girls who work out, it shows dedication, especially if im in a relashionship with them, it proves to me that there loyal"
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
#2. D#mn b^tch you gettin chubby...yo fat#ss need to hit the Treadmill
either one works everytime
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
every time she tried to eat something fatty , smack it out of her hand and give here a carrot =] or some celery
If she gets offended you can play it off a s a joke , but you will get here thinking ,just tease her , like **** that's obviously over reacting since shes not that chunky, a good one would be when she gets in your car , as soon as she sits down , go "Woah! easy on the shocks! this car needs to last" lol
Im mostly joking around , but you get the idea
Lead by example.
I doubt that talking to her about it would change anything.
But if she sees you looking your best, getting attention from other girls, and realises that you're willing to walk away unless she shapes up, that should motivate her to follow your lead.
If not...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
I believe that you should tell her! We are supposed to have what we want and not compromise with less that that!
1) Detox - get her the Zand Cleansing Kit - it's a bunch of natural herbs (as of today these are now outlawed in Europe but have been safely used for thousands of years).
2) Fresh Grapefruit first thing in the morning on an empty stomach.
3) Fresh squeezed Lemonade with Stevia and filtered water as your main drink.
4) Green Tea.
5) Bicycling (have a destination that is 5-10 miles away).
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.