You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Exactly why im not going to tell he straight up, if it comes down to it I will. Im probably going to mention something about fitness, and how I love girls who work out...its very sexy...etcPDubb75 said:Interesting article, but geared more towards relationships. But the one you mentioned could easily be adapted to your situation. I know some girls that would respond really well to these things. I even know some that would prefer if someone straight up told them they needed to lose weight. But others would flip out at any of these suggestions. Just be careful.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exactly why im not going to tell he straight up, if it comes down to it I will. Im probably going to mention something about fitness, and how I love girls who work out...its very sexy...etcPDubb75 said:Interesting article, but geared more towards relationships. But the one you mentioned could easily be adapted to your situation. I know some girls that would respond really well to these things. I even know some that would prefer if someone straight up told them they needed to lose weight. But others would flip out at any of these suggestions. Just be careful.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
^ThisIamJosan said:If you don't like chubby girls, then don't date em! It's hard to make people change.
This might just work..Im gonig to do that tonight plus the story telling about how i like fit girlsDonJuanit0 said:When an ex of mine put some weight on, I actually told her! After sex I touched her belly and said in a playfull way, "hey, what's this woman?" She answered "leave me alone!" in a playfull way too! That was the beggining, after that, a couple of days later I asked her if she would be interested in joining me in jogging cause I wanted to exercise my body a little bit and it would be a great chance for her to lose those extra pounds in her belly!
I believe that you should tell her! We are supposed to have what we want and not compromise with less that that!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.