"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to get a girl to loose some weight?
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The only thing I can think of would be taking her out to do more active things. But unless you spend a lot of time with her and do this often, shes gotta get on board and try to lose the weight herself. I don't see how you can really get her to do that... safely.
Inception?
Crissco
Master Don Juan
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/144b_dating_advice.html
Next time i see her im going to get into the topic of fitness, then say I lovvvveee girls who know how to keep them self in shape and go to the gym.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Exactly why im not going to tell he straight up, if it comes down to it I will. Im probably going to mention something about fitness, and how I love girls who work out...its very sexy...etcPDubb75 said:
Thanks for the advice bro
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Exactly why im not going to tell he straight up, if it comes down to it I will. Im probably going to mention something about fitness, and how I love girls who work out...its very sexy...etcPDubb75 said:
Thanks for the advice bro
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Im going to say "I love girls who work out, it shows dedication, especially if im in a relashionship with them, it proves to me that there loyal"
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
#2. D#mn b^tch you gettin chubby...yo fat#ss need to hit the Treadmill
either one works everytime
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
every time she tried to eat something fatty , smack it out of her hand and give here a carrot =] or some celery
If she gets offended you can play it off a s a joke , but you will get here thinking ,just tease her , like **** that's obviously over reacting since shes not that chunky, a good one would be when she gets in your car , as soon as she sits down , go "Woah! easy on the shocks! this car needs to last" lol
Im mostly joking around , but you get the idea
Lead by example.
I doubt that talking to her about it would change anything.
But if she sees you looking your best, getting attention from other girls, and realises that you're willing to walk away unless she shapes up, that should motivate her to follow your lead.
If not...
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
I believe that you should tell her! We are supposed to have what we want and not compromise with less that that!
1) Detox - get her the Zand Cleansing Kit - it's a bunch of natural herbs (as of today these are now outlawed in Europe but have been safely used for thousands of years).
2) Fresh Grapefruit first thing in the morning on an empty stomach.
3) Fresh squeezed Lemonade with Stevia and filtered water as your main drink.
4) Green Tea.
5) Bicycling (have a destination that is 5-10 miles away).
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.